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Caitlyn
Dedicated November 2019

Inviting Month of Corrdinator to Bridal Shower

Caitlyn, on August 21, 2019 at 7:05 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 6
Is it weird to invite my month of coordinator to my personal bridal shower that my mom and sister are hosting? My reason for doing so would be so she could get to know my bridal party, mother of the groom, family, etc. I would emphasize to her that she does not need to bring a gift. It may be totally weird and not at all normal but I thought it would be a nice gesture.

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Latest activity by earias, on August 22, 2019 at 1:29 AM
  • Soon2BSmith
    Expert October 2020
    Soon2BSmith ·
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    I see nothing wrong with it. She gets to meet everyone involved and it may give her more motivation to do an amazing job for you.

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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
    Colleen ·
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    I think it is fine but if it is a Sunday or Saturday she may not be able to make it.
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  • Madison
    Devoted May 2022
    Madison ·
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    I don’t think it’s weird! Maybe offer that she can bring someone with her? I have day of coordinating who happens to be the owner of the venue along with her mom so I plan on inviting both of them. I think it will make the planning more personalized.
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    I think your intentions are good but that you’re putting her in an uncomfortable situation if you invite her. Asking her to the bridal shower so she can meet people is like asking her to work any other extra hours for free. There is the added awkwardness of not bringing a gift to a shower, which I know you said you will speak with her about but there is social pressure for her to bring a gift.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Yeah, I think that’s weird. It’s great that you want her to develop a relationship with your friends and family, but that’s not her place. Coordinating your wedding is her job. Unless you’re going to pay her to come to your shower, I wouldn’t.
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    I agree with Samantha and Caytlyn. I think it would be weird. Your shower guests should be your nearest and dearest. Your wedding coordinator is working for you. I think you would be putting her in an awkward situation plus if she does have this time off she probably would rather spend it with her own family.
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