My fiancé and I just got engaged and are seriously considering not inviting his step mother. She’s been in his life since he was two however she’s been horrible to him. Her and his dad ended up adopting two kids since they got together and ended up neglecting him. You can tell she doesn’t even care for him bc they take family photos without him and he’s in the background of two photos on Facebook. She pretend he doesn’t exist. When we first got together she never gave me a chance and automatically hated me, saying I looked like a “prissy city girl princess” based off my Facebook. When I got to meet her in person for the first time, she asked him if he’s seen me without make up bc I wore too much. Flash forward to when we moved in together she told him he was making a mistake and he would end up coming back home. She’s told his ex that she liked her more than me and gave permission to ruin our relationship and gave her our address. On Christmas morning she refused to announce our engagement to the family saying it was inappropriate and made me cry on Christmas morning by being straight up disrespectful.
We want his dad to come. His dad was the one that introduced us and it means a lot to us that his dad comes. But we don’t want to invite his wife due to her potentially making a scene. Is there an appropriate way to just not invite her?
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