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Beginner November 2017

Is a 3 hour reception to short?

Irielle, on October 24, 2017 at 1:42 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 15

I'm having my ceremony at my church for 5pm. The reception at 7pm at another location. The package includes 3 hours. I can pay for an extra hour but my mother's and matron keep saying not to. That I have paid enough money for our wedding. Don't give the venue another quarter lol. Well I'm worried about the guest and overall reception. I did my timeline and won't lie everything is a bit squeezed together but it works. Also we plan on going to a nightclub after in full attire, bridal party and whoever else want to join lol.

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Latest activity by Debra, on October 25, 2017 at 7:52 AM
  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    If it were me I would invest in the other hour, but that's because I know I won't want to rushed or want the night to end.

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  • Ashley
    Expert November 2018
    Ashley ·
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    How long will your ceremony last? It seems like you'll have a gap between ceremony and reception. Is anything happening during that time? Do you have to be completely out of the venue by 10?

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    I would definitely add another hour. Our reception was 4 hours and it seemed so short!

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  • Arrie
    Dedicated September 2018
    Arrie ·
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    Our venue has ours set as a 3 hour reception, which i'm worried will be too short as well. But ours is during the day (from 12-3) and we can't get additional hours because they have another wedding that evening. We're thinking of doing a post-reception party with our parties and anyone else who wants to come.

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  • NewlyMrsLachney
    Master September 2017
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    I would do another hour. If anything runs long, you run the risk of having to skip something.

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  • I
    Beginner November 2017
    Irielle ·
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    I think I will get an extra hour. I'm texting her now to see the price. I really hope it's reasonable

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  • Brianna
    VIP May 2018
    Brianna ·
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    Agree with the extra hour - hope you can fit it in to your budget!

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  • Tamara
    Super October 2017
    Tamara ·
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    Mine is 5 and I m crying over it, because another hall offers 6 hours ( I just don't like the hall that much - even though it like one of the top notch venues in New Jersey - not my style, too much, lol)

    3 hours is too short, but that's just my opinion.

    eta- I m not *literally* crying.. Smiley laugh just being funny. I just really like long weddings.

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  • Samantha
    Beginner July 2018
    Samantha ·
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    3 might be a little short, especially if it includes both dinner and dancing

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  • Tracy
    Dedicated October 2018
    Tracy ·
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    I feel like that would be too short to get the chance to talk to everyone.

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  • FutureMrsWhite
    Dedicated April 2018
    FutureMrsWhite ·
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    3 hours is enough if you're having a dry wedding. I've been to weddings that obviously had a time crunch. Everything felt rushed.

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    Typically weddings in my area are roughly four hours. Do you have a 2 hour gap?

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
    Rachel DellaPorte ·
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    I was going to say that three hours was too short. Then I checked your date.

    You're hosting a Sunday night wedding, and ending a Sunday night wedding at 10:00 PM is a good idea. If it were Friday or Saturday, I'd urge you to go for an extra hour on the end, but not in this case.

    Secondly, a wedding ceremony that starts at 5:00 and a reception that starts at 7:00 says one of two things -- either your ceremony is lengthy (an hour or more), or there's a gap. That gap, on a Sunday night, could be a big issue. Can you give us more info on the timeline?

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  • Tara
    Devoted March 2018
    Tara ·
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    Ours will only be about 3 hours. But that night we will be heading to a local bar that friends own with our bridal party to celebrate more (we are having an early afternoon wedding) and we are inviting everyone to join us if they would like

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  • Debra
    Dedicated May 2018
    Debra ·
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    We are having a daytime wedding and they included 3 hours (1 hour cocktail, 2 hour reception). I thought this was fine until I sat down with the coordinator and we started thinking about timing. It just started to sound so rushed to me and we decided to add on another hour to the reception. It was a personal choice, but I am happy we can provide our guests with drinks and music for an additional hour! Since it is a daytime wedding, our plan is to continue hanging out at the beach bar after and into the evening but I felt like I needed to do more for the guests traveling to Florida for us.

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