Is anyone else just over the wedding drama

I’m a very drama free person and like people have said sometimes weddings really bring out the worst in people. Especially my bridesmaids, except 1. I already had to ditch two bridesmaids for long term drama that should’ve been felt with beforehand and now I have 3 left and only 1 hadn’t driven me absolutely insane. One of my bridesmaids is my fiancé’s best mans wife and she had been terrible with communication. Me and my fiancé have had such a hard time getting a hold of both the husband and wife. I gave her plenty of time in advance to get her dress and I ended up having to order it for her 3 weeks ago, and she didn’t even apologize for adding that extra stress on me. She’s also a licensed cosmetologist and is doing my hair for free and my other bridesmaids are paying her to do there’s. she did a great job on the trial run. But I told her I wanted to add my hair extensions and she didn’t tell my fiancé till this last week that she doesn’t feel comfortable putting in clip in extensions, so I have to put them in my hair myself and she will style them. I’m hoping there’s just some miss communication on the type of hair extensions but I have a hard time wrapping my head around a licensed cosmetologist not knowing how to put in clip in extensions. And now my MOH who is my sisters is pissed that she has to put in her own clip in extensions in her self as well. And now refuses to let the bridesmaid who was supposed to do our hair touch her hair. My MOH also said if it turns out the extensions don’t look right she’ll just braid her hair back even though I asked the bridesmaids to have there hair half up half down. I tried to talk to my sister but she’s so stubborn and I feel like everyone’s making me feel like I don’t have the right to be upset over these things. I would never behave this way as someone’s bridesmaid. But the selfish behavior from both of them is awful and making me feel like it’s there day not mine. Between the tantrum my sister through over the hair and the girl who was supposed to do my hair communicating whenever she feels like it. I’m just frustrated and every time I try to put my foot down and explain it’s my day and I’m not asking for much I get nowhere and I find myself bending for my own wedding. It just makes me mad I had to rant