I decided to wear flat sandals with my dress for a few reasons, I don't want to be uncomfortable in heels and I don't really like ballet flats. I was going to get the rose gold ones from David's Bridal but after seeing them in person, I was disappointed. Anyway, a coworker/upcoming wedding guest was asking about the attire at my wedding. I showed her the shoes I picked and she got really judgy.. she made a face at me and was saying they are ok if they won't be seen (they won't be seen btw) and that she is just "more traditional" - I'm really tired of unsolicited opinions. Unfortunately, I'm pretty impressionable and this is the 2nd time I've allowed this person to make me 2nd guess myself..which then leads to me stressing out like crazy. I'm putting a pic below of the shoes, so please let me know if any of you think they are THAT BAD. Also, just to note, this woman is old enough to be my mother, so maybe its just a generation gap. Pic below.