Is anyone else worried about their FH's bachelor party?

No, because I trust my husband without a doubt. Why would you want to be with someone who you think is going to cheat on you?

My FH friends are taking him to Vegas.. Im jealous that I dont get a trip like that but Im not worried about him doing anything..

My FH and his best man... when they get started, they don't know how to stop. I don't worry that he'll cheat... I worry about him getting arrested or doing something stupid, lol.

Umm no. there is literally no doubt in my mind that my husband would ever do anything to hurt me. is he Colombian or does he know people there? If not, it's kind of a random spot to go honestly ... I mean, I'm sure it's a fine place to visit but not at all the safest, closest, or cheapest if you don't have family or friends there.

i guess i can't relate because i cannot imagine marrying someone who would even cause these doubts.

We agreed nothing out of the country for our parties. It didn't have to do with trust. More with safety and cell phone service.

Nope. No matter what he does I trust him. He hates strip clubs so I know they won't go there and if they get drunk then he is obsessed with me lol. I'll have non stop phone calls. I'm not worried at all

- you said you aren't worried he will cheat but mentioned it and stds! That's scary you are thinking that

Mine wants to go to a ranch in Colorado and do "manly things"....and I'm the one who fixed our plumbing a few months ago ;-)

Seriously though, I would probably punch my guy in the face if he said anything that alluded to cheating on me. If you have doubts than there probably a reason for them.

Are you really worried about him doing right by you, or is this part of wedding jitters? I'm sure you really do trust him to do right by you, and there's nothing to worry about. However, as far as all of the other factors you mentioned, I totally understand your concern. Maybe a conversation with him about his overall safety would help him to understand why you feel the way you do.

FWIW, if there was anything that I was uncomfortable with and addressed it with my husband, chances are he wouldn't be pursuing it anymore. There's no reason why you can't have a civilized and adult conversation with him, voicing your concerns. He should at least be willing to hear you out. Just... communicate.

My only worry is that FH won't enjoy his. The best man is organising it and not giving out any details, but he seems to be having a second adolescence and just going out and getting really drunk all the time. My FH likes a drink, but he doesn't want his stag do to just be all about getting wasted.

I've told him to talk to his best man and make sure it's going to be something that's fun for him, but I think he'd rather just be quiet and go with it rather than actually have a conversation. Men!

No worries- My FH doesn't want a bachelor's party. But, if he were to have one, it would be something low key as he is not the party animal type. And, I totally trust him.

No I am not worried at all. I do trust him, but I will say I don't trust his best men.

Nope lol His Best Maid already told me some of the things she is planning for him (Strip Club, craft beer garden, six flags) because they are doing a full weekend (leaving Friday afternoon after work and coming home Sunday afternoon/night). She and my MOH coordinated and my girls are taking me the same weekend. I'm more worried about what my girls are going to try to get me to do rather than FH!

No, I trusted my man. However, my best friend activated her FH tracking on his iphone and tracked his every move. I thought it was a bit extreme.... But then he had previously been arrested during a bachelor party for drunk and disorderly. So, maybe it was justified.

I was nervous because of my past not because of this specific relationship so I had to push it out of my mind. I could see being nervous about him being in another country and partying though.

I trust DH 100%, but then again he's just not the type who would ever get into anything illegal or any kind of trouble. One reason I love him.

DH's friends and family flew in from all over the country for his bachelor party weekend. His cousin invited me out for their last "event," dinner. So.much.fun.

His bachelor party hasn't even crossed my mind because I trust him explicitly. You shouldn't be getting married if you don't trust your fiance.

Nope, I trust my FH 100% completely. I am actually in the same boat as Jemma. His groomsmen aren't ideal to plan this and he will end up having to plan something, which may work out better, since he would rather go up to the cottage and fish or do "manly" things as well. He isn't a partier at all.

FH is worried about mine though. My bridesmaids are wild and like to drink and party. He is just worried about them getting me a stripper lol. He is quite conservative in regards to that, so he just doesn't want some guy dancing up on me. They won't tell me what they have planned, just the weekend that it's happening.

I' wasn't worried I am more fun and wild then hubby. I make him sweat

Not worried at all. I trust my FH to get plastered beyond control and party out ALL night long. But he would never cheat on me.

At least if he does end up with an STD you'll know he cheated on you for sure.

Or just sat on the wrong toilet seat..

Not worried at all. I trust my FH, and I know he won't do anything at a bachelor party that would hurt me or our relationship.