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Renata
Super March 2014

Is anyone else worried about their FH's bachelor party?

Renata, on January 21, 2014 at 7:57 AM

Posted in Planning 128

For my party i'm gonna go to a spa with the girls and maybe atlantic city to a club.... my FH on the other hand invited 4 of this closest party animal friends and are flying to Columbia for 4 days! When they party they go all out and i'm worried that there will be problems. Like "Hangover" movie but...

For my party i'm gonna go to a spa with the girls and maybe atlantic city to a club.... my FH on the other hand invited 4 of this closest party animal friends and are flying to Columbia for 4 days! When they party they go all out and i'm worried that there will be problems. Like "Hangover" movie but in Columbia. At first i was worried about him cheating on me but now i'm worried about drugs, getting arrested, getting mugged, someone stuffing him with drugs at the airport, things like that... obviously i'm still worried about the girls but mostly STD's. I told him that i'm worried about him cheating and he said if he wanted to cheat he doesn't have to go to Columbia for it so i got over it a BIT.

Is anyone else having this issue?

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  • MissMadeline
    Master June 2014
    MissMadeline ·
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    Oh, D. I see what you did there. Smiley winking


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  • P
    Super August 2014
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    No, I trust my FH and I think him and his friends are going to vegas. I feel more uncomfortable with his friends getting stippers. I trust him it just makes me uncomfortable thinking about it.

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  • DEVOLAS
    Expert February 2016
    DEVOLAS ·
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    I trust my FH. He knows what will piss me off and what won'tSmiley winking Plus he cherishes our relationship and wouldn't do anything to lose my kids. He thinks of them as his own and wouldn't jeopardize their relationship.

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  • erin
    VIP April 2014
    erin ·
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    I trust FH. He hates clubs and isn't a huge partier. We are also having a co ed night out so nothing to worry about there. He may go to the pub after work with some friends one day but that's pretty tame.

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  • K + B
    VIP September 2014
    K + B ·
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    I don't. My FH used to bounce at strip clubs so he knows what they are all about. He tells me "I've seen all the tits and p*ssy and the problems that go with it."

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  • Sh
    VIP July 2013
    Sh ·
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    I trust my husband 100%. When I meet him I loved the fact that he was so honest, never got drunk or did drugs and was a responsible adult. I would not have married someone I do not trust or would think would cheat on me. He did not have a bachelor party and I didn't do anything with my girls either. I know for a fact that my husband would never act this way, not even when he was single or when we were dating. I feel like you have more to worry about than him going to Colombia, think about your future marriage to this man.

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  • THE Mrs. Russell
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    THE Mrs. Russell ·
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    Not worried at all...my FH is taking his guys either shooting in the desert, or hiking in the mountains - so the only thing I'm worried about is if he shoots his foot off or something boy-stupid like that.

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  • Macksgirl
    Master August 2014
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    I ****% trust FH, never crossed my mind not too.

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  • Just Reenski
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    Just Reenski ·
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    I could understand a genuine concern about him going to a country that doesn't seem to be the safest place in the world. If he wants a guys trip, I feel there are many other places he could go that are safer, say Puerto Rico. But again, the concern would be their general safety.

    He's right though, he doesn't have to go to Colombia to cheat. If that's your concern, then ya'll got some serious talking to do.

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  • M
    VIP April 2014
    Mrs. Courtney Baytop ·
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    Nope. They are going to Wizards and to a sports lounge afterwards. Plus he knows that I am the bees knees and he would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship.

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  • Private User
    Master March 2014
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    Nope, mine went to Dave & Busters. He's a good boy Smiley smile

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  • Weddingbliss
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    She still hasn't responded to anyone asking why she doesn't trust her husband. Sorry but if you have all these doubts its for a reason, why are you marrying someone you dont trust?

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  • P
    Dedicated June 2014
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    Fh and his brother are both getting married this year so they decided to go all out and go to Vegas, a bunch of guys who all like to drink and have a good time. At first I was freaking out but then I realized he chose to marry me, why would he cheat. .. I fully trust him and am actually excited for him to have the bachelor party he has wanted.

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  • MrsWilliams
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    MrsWilliams ·
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    Not worried at all, i trust my FH.

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  • britt morgan
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    Not worried, im jealous he'll have fun without me ! Smiley winking

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  • Danielle
    Devoted September 2014
    Danielle ·
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    A little worried that if he has another night out like the one he did this past year for a buddy's bachelor party at an oil wrestling thing at a bar, that he'll chip another tooth or pass out somewhere gross, but beyond that, not worried!!

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  • M
    Master May 2014
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    I'm absolutely NOT worried one bit. He had two very close contenders for Best Man and I told him he should definitely go with the one who will throw him the dirtier bachelor party! I hope he has a blast!

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  • Renata
    Super March 2014
    Renata ·
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    I'm curious, how many of the 50+ people who responded live in NY?

    I trust my FH fully and completely... However, as some of you pointed out that you worry about them getting too drunk... what do you think happens when guys get too drunk, especially when they are with friends who try to get with every girl.... especially in a country where they are all gorgeous and jump at any person carrying American currency?

    Those of you who said you trust you FH completely... your comments usually followed with a story how you FH stayed in your city and just went out with his boys... I'm talking about going out of country.

    USA has the highest divorce rate in the world... NY is the third on the list of the states.... i'm sure cheating had nothing to do with it... Let's be realistic here.

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  • P
    Super April 2014
    PurpleHairLover ·
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    My fiance doesn't want a bachelor party! lol weirdoo...

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  • Theresa Beale
    Master November 2014
    Theresa Beale ·
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    I'm not worried at all. FH doesn't "roll" like that; plus he plans on inviting my father as well as his father so there is only so much trouble they can get into.

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