Is anyone else worried about their FH's bachelor party?

I think the problem is you gave to many details that painted the situation in a negative light. When you start talking about STDS and other girls, it's going to carried away. Perhaps just stating you are worried about the bachelor party and your FH safety would have been a better route. Just my two cents.

Honey, you painted your FH in a bad light when you mentioned STD's, him implying that he could cheat on you whenever he wants, he doesn't need to go out of the country to do it and when you talked about him checking up on you constantly/showing up randomly when you are out with your girls. No one here made false assumptions or implied any thing. You did all the leg work. Don't try to defend him now.

Not really. I mean, he could get hurt if he hits a tree too hard on a zip line or gets his foot caught somewhere while doing an obstacle, but he's done the high ropes course before. I've done it, and I'm the injury-prone one.

I am now confused. Original post says "Columbia" which is the capital of South Carolina (also a city here in Maryland), but now the follow-up post says "Colombia" which is a country in South America. Which is it?

I know FH will be having an all out BALLIN bachelor party involving dinner, party bus to philly, and strip clubs. I honestly wouldn't expect anything less. I have been with FH through 3 of his friends bachelor parties already and I know shit got cray cray. Butttt I trust FH and know he would never cheat on me. The thought has never crossed my mind about his Bach party.

Am I the only one who couldn't care less about FH going to the strip club?

Not even a little bit concerned....about my FH. I'm a little concerned about what kind of party his brother will throw for him, but I told him that if he touches any strippers he has to burn his clothes and shower in bleach (joke). But seriously, I would never marry a guy who I was worried would cheat on me, especially one who would cheat at a party to celebrate our wedding!

COLOMBIA as in South America. I made a typo. sorry.

@Talyia - it's funny but i'm not worried about strip clubs either.

HAHA My FH knows i worry about the trip so he keeps messing with me. He asked me what he should do if he falls in love with a Colombian girl - should he bring her here or stay there with her. Then he moved to.... can he bring her here and keep her as a mistress so she can do all his paperwork... I tried to change the subject so i asked how many kids he wants (yes we have discussed it before this was just a change of subject) he answered with "i don't want kids, i want 2 wives and a dog" He ended the night with... don't worry baby i'll love you more than the Colombian girl.