I have seen a recurring statement here on WW over and over again.... “The only thing that matters is you get to marry your best friend”
This statement has become increasingly popular over the past 9 months as the pandemic has forced so many couples to cancel, postpone, or reimagine their weddings. If a post is about Covid related issues/disappointments with a wedding, you can pretty much bet somebody is going to offer up the “in the end, the only thing that matters is you get to marry your best friend” quip. But is that all that matters to you? Although I think that it’s a beautiful sentiment (and in its most basic form is true- obviously the end game for everyone having a wedding is to get married), I feel the statement can really devalue the importance of the actual wedding to many people. Sure, you can get married without having a wedding, but for so many people the wedding is an important way to celebrate with their loved ones one of the biggest days of their lives. So while for some people “getting to marry your best friend is all that matters” is true... for tons of others it’s not. And that’s ok! I feel like some people (myself included) have felt a sense of guilt reading that statement, especially during our current pandemic climate, when there are so many horrible things happening to people. So I would like to take this time to tell everyone who doesn’t feel as though just signing the marriage license is enough, you’re not selfish and you’re not alone! It’s OK to still want the wedding of your dreams! For those of you still holding on and planning that ideal celebration, feel free to share the details! What are you excited about?!