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Is it ok for fiance/husbands to stay out all night

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yolanda, on November 24, 2017 at 1:37 AM

Ok so im looking for opinions. My fiance and I will be getting married in a few years. We have had a few disagreements when it comes to this subject. He doesnt go out. If he does its with his sisters there is 7 of them. I am a loner I love being home so I dont knock him for spending time with his family. What I do knock is that you live a different life from them they drink, party stay out all night daily To me its a matter of respect. It doesnt look good when your out all night and do not return until the next morning. His argument is" but im with my family". I never want to seem controlling. I am not suspicious of anything. However I'm thinking when we get married how does that look you staying out all night while your wife and kids are at home as a married man? Am i tripping yall? Regardless if its family his sisters dont have or have ever been in a relationship such as ours so i feel as though nobody can relate to me. I guess I am looking for clarity am I wrong? Am I over thinking

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Just Said Yes September 2018
Katie · on November 25, 2017 at 8:56 PM
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I think the fact that your FH stays out is fine, what's more worrying to me is the family dynamic you described. It sounds to me like you think his family is a bad influence on him- why not go with him, spend time with your loved one and (added benefit) make sure he's safe? Not every time, but every so often? Obviously works better if you don't have kids. And like... His sisters are going to be your sisters in law when you get married, I get loving them better from a distance, but interacting with them every so often might make life easier in the long run
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