My sister and my best friend are throwing me a bridal shower and I want to know if it's okay for me to be completely involved with all the planning. I'm not sure what the etiquette is on that. I have so many ideas and I've seen so many cute things online that I want to buy but is it considered tacky for me to be so actively involved?
My shower is still 3 months away but I know for a fact those two will save everything for last minute and many things have to be ordered online. I would much rather have everything done in advance. I don't expect them to finalize anything this quickly as (I know that's crazy) but I was hoping to buy some of the decorations within the next month. I don't want to offend them though. Can anyone tell me what the right thing to do is?