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Beginner November 2021

Is it too late to ask my besties to be in my wedding?

Elaine, on May 31, 2021 at 3:19 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5
Got engaged on Xmas 2020, shortly after I started planning and set a date for 11/12/2021. I still haven’t officially asked my two besties to be in my wedding. We were just going to have our kids in the wedding. They both understand and I told them the groom and I are thinking about what we actually should/want to do. Bestie #1 has been active in helping to plan my bridal shower, etc. Bestie #2 is like “let me know if you need anything” and feels traditionally the bridesmaids/MOH help plan bridal shower, etc and doesn’t want to overstep which is not normal for her. My question is it too late to send them an invite to be my maid of honor/matron of honor?

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Latest activity by Elaine, on May 31, 2021 at 6:22 PM
  • AJ
    Super October 2022
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    I don't think its too late, just have them start looking at dresses and thinking about ordering them soon

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    Elaine ·
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    Ok thanks!
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    Attendants don’t need to be asked prior to 6 months before the wedding so you are fine.

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  • Kasandra
    Just Said Yes June 2021
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    No, not too late in my opinion. I would just make sure I have details like dress, expected costs, etc already figured out for them when you ask. Since they only have about 5 months left, you’ll want to make things a smooth as possible for them and giving them all the info to hit the ground running I think would be a big help
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    Elaine ·
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    Ok, that’s a good point! Thanks for the input!
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