Is its ok to allow your husband to stay out all night

Questions I have been married to my husband for 5 years going 6 years.Been together for 11 years, but we have been battling with some relationship problems. One is trust, communication, understanding and affection. One of our recent augment is not allowing him having friend sand he feel like that him not being social is because of me not allowing him to be out or Hangouts with his friends. Which is not true, he have a friend I just think that the type of people's he hang with I don't trust and especially the thing that they being doing as dog women out and I don't even know them. I feel if you are married there are thing should be respected to your marriage especially. I will be if he goes for game night or hanging out with his friends at their house for a minimum hours but not all night until the morning. Something I don't accept if his friends invited him somewhere late and he getting out the house at 11pm and coming home around 5 am while your wife and children is home sleeping I don't think it's ok. Clubving with his home boy after work and I barely don't see him because he works a 13 hours shift every day and barely have time for our relationships when he home he sleeping if I want to do something with him he tells him that he don't have time for me and h tired and I wok less hours than him but I have to come home take care of our two small kids the house and going to college full time but I still want to make time for him but he telling me his wok labor is harder than mines that why I have all this energy but you about going out with your friend late night I don't know what to do should I allow him