Is there a way to combine elements of these two styles?

Ask her if she can do the front of the first one and pull it back like it is in the second one. I think this would be easy to incorporate the two hairstyles. I really like the back of the second one as well.

I have super long hair with very little styling- almost down to my hips. I am doing a similar bun but that’s besides the point. My hairstylist mentioned that a few “framing” bangs could be cut to help achieve the face framing look that I wanted with a few wispy and curled pieces of hair. I literally had her cut me some bangs right there in the trial. 😂 Maybe this is something you could try or look in to?