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Melissa282
Dedicated November 2016

Is this a reasonable price for Bridesmaid dresses?

Melissa282, on April 12, 2016 at 11:36 PM

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I am having my girls in long to the floor chiffon navy blue dresses with black lace. They're $275 with 20% off each one. I'm contributing $50 to each as I feel that I should on top of their gifts that includes a Coach wristlet, personalized satin robe, personalized compact mirror, bracelet and a few...

I am having my girls in long to the floor chiffon navy blue dresses with black lace. They're $275 with 20% off each one. I'm contributing $50 to each as I feel that I should on top of their gifts that includes a Coach wristlet, personalized satin robe, personalized compact mirror, bracelet and a few other small items.

Is this fair? Thoughts?

**update: this is CANADIAN pricing.

Also, I'm not justifying the price of the dress by expressing the gifts. Read what I wrote carefully, I am mentioning the gifts in regards to the $50 I am helping to subsidize for the dresses.


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  • BicycleBuiltForTwo
    Master September 2016
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    Ask your girls their budget. If their budget is $200 then you're good to go. If their budget is $100 keep looking. None of us can tell you what their budget is.

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  • MNBride
    Master June 2017
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    Is the 275 before or after the 20% off? The dress doesn't look that special for the price. David's Bridal has very similar lace and chiffon dresses for $150.

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  • Rebecca
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    You need at ask what their budget is. Every girl is different. I would not personally spend more than $150 nor have I and I have been in 5 plus weddings

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  • Becoming a Mrs
    Master July 2016
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    What is THEIR budget. You may think it's fair but they are the only ones that can tell you what their budget it is. Ask them individually what their budget it. The lowest one is not the budget for the dress. Honestly I know you think they can wear it again, I feel like it's something us brides say to ourselves because we don't want to feel guilty about the cost. But chances are they won't. I have a bridesmaid dress sitting in my closest I was told I would totally be able to wear again. I never will. It's a gorgeous dress but in reality it'll sit there forever.

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  • Melissa282
    Dedicated November 2016
    Melissa282 ·
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    Update: They all love the dress and say it can be easily work again and are totally fine with the price. I told them if they want they can pick another dress that is similar if they feel it is too expensive. They said they really like this one and all said they can easily wear it again. My sister is obsessed with hers. She attends a lot of weddings so she has no problem wearing it again.

    My wedding is formal so of course my dresses will be.

    Ps - My gifts were not meant to be a tit for tat thing, just making sure my bridesmaids are taken care of for all of their help.

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  • JennV
    Master October 2017
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    So its $275, with 20% off and a $50.00 credit (from you) which would be $170.00 per dress. I think that's a lot, personally I wouldn't want to spend that on one dress for one night. I'm sure they won't be worn again. You have to ask your maids but I'd said no.

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  • Rene
    Super January 2017
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    I'd say it's kind of high because they are still going to have to buy shoes and accessories on top of that....I'd ask them all what their ideal budget would be privately that way it's not in a group and no one is singled out then pick a dress in the price range everyone can afford.

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  • Melissa282
    Dedicated November 2016
    Melissa282 ·
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    To all of you saying $170 is a lot for a long chiffon dress with lace... Where do you live? Ps- this is Canadian pricing so in the US is more like $125

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  • Andreya
    Expert June 2016
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    I don't think the fact that you're getting them an expensive gift justifies asking them to spend a lot on the dress.

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  • Andreya
    Expert June 2016
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    @Melissa This was from David's bridal. $160 I believe.


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  • -R-
    Super September 2016
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    I'd rather not have any of the gifts and you just get me the dress so I don't have to spend so much.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    @Melissa - so glad you talked with your bridesmaids!

    Make sure to update that avatar when you get a chance Smiley smile

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  • Melissa282
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    If you want to be super technical O&S, it would be $136.21

    Andreya, is that $160 US? My price is Canadian. And if you read my other posts in this thread states I am not justifying anything.

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  • Desireecox
    VIP October 2016
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    Personally I wouldn't pay it, I think nothing more than 150 is my max since it is a dress that I'll only wear once. But if they are comfortable with the price then go for it

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  • Swin.
    Master June 2016
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    It goes down to $136.21?!?

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  • Melissa282
    Dedicated November 2016
    Melissa282 ·
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    Yes Swin, from Canadian to American. Our dollar sucks lol

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  • Desiree
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    My dresses are $350. I think it's the responsibility of the bride to discuss it individually with her girls. All of my girls we're overwhelmingly supportive of the cost because they said they would spend whatever I asked.

    To clarify I did offer to supplement the cost for everyone considerably and they all declined. We're also all mid- 30s plus so money isn't really an object in this situation so that helps!

    It brought tears to my eyes when they all said they didn't mind the price they just wanted me to be happy. I also told them they can get any shoes and accessories they want, I honestly don't care.

    You can't take what everyone says on here as gospel, use your own judgement. They're your friends just talk to them. Smiley smile I also gave them 5 months notice on the price in case they needed time to save.

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  • sarabee
    Devoted July 2016
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    Yikes. I'd have to say no to that price. The most I'd pay is $150.

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  • Mrs. in PDX
    Devoted July 2016
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    It wouldn't be in my bridesmaids budget and knowing that, I wouldn't ask. I know some groups of girls though that expect that budget, so it depends on who you know. 2/3 of my bridesmaids are also traveling to get here, so I really want them spending as little as possible.

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  • Melissa282
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    Thanks Desiree! I also think it depends on where you live as well... Most dresses here in Ontario are $200-$300. I should have put in there that it's Canadian pricing which is really different.

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