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Shanna
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Is this common?

Shanna, on February 5, 2020 at 11:09 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 33
Hey future brides,
I have my wedding dress picked out, but is it bad that I question my dress when I see other ladies in their dress? Does anyone else do this? I think my dress is nice and goes with our venue, but idk 🤣 why I question it???

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on February 20, 2020 at 2:40 PM
  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    Lots of people have second thoughts about their dress (these boards are literally overrun by it just search Dress regret!)
    I'm sure your dress is beautiful and you chose it for a reason!
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  • Nefetera
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    Nefetera ·
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    Im having second thoughts as well. Compare to some of the dresses I see sometimes I wish I can repick but its ok Ill dress my dress up more. It is a very normal feeling.

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  • Shanna
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    Right!!! I’m glad to know I’m not the only one. My dress is simple so I guess dressing it up would make it look even better. Most of the dresses I see wouldn’t even fit my body type I am not small enough 🤣
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  • Cheryl
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    I second guessed my dress for months after I bought it. Then one day after looking at pictures of it I got the feeling of "omg this is my dress!" I handy 2nd to last fitting last Friday and even though it was all pinned seeing it fit like it's supposed to made me fall for it all over again.
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  • Kristen
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    I made an appt to go to David's bridal later today to look at other dresses even though I bought mine ha ha

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  • John Smith
    Expert February 2015
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    For me it's just a part of FOMO. I purposely tried on all different styles of dress before deciding so that I wouldn't feel like I missed out on anything. I've purposely not looked at any other dresses since getting mine.

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  • Latonya
    Devoted April 2021
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    You are having dress envy or dress remorse possibly. I did this when I went to get my dress. I purchased one because it was the one I had my heart set on. I did try on 3 others and loved my 2nd dress also (it was fully beaded which was what i really wanted) but the 1st dress was more in my price range. Well i got the first dress and literally once i got home felt so bad. I mean i kept looking at the pictures of me in the 2nd dress and loved it even the more. So I went back weeks and later and changed my dress. lol. I am happy I did. Baby girl is hanging up in the closet waiting for alterations and our big day.

    So no it is not unusual. BUT i will say this. Once you get the dress you love......STOP LOOKING!!!! Don't look at another dress. Try not to look at others in their dresses. Dont look at new arrivals etc. because you may find yourself having remorse.


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  • M
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    Dress envy is real. I had dress envy a lot. I would love my dress but I'd also think gosh those other ones are gorgeous too.
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  • Nefetera
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    I agree....will be find lol
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  • Nefetera
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    Fine*** Smiley smile
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  • Shanna
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    I think I just want a glam dress but honestly doesn’t go with my venue. Lol I mean I really like my dress. It’s just the opposite of what I thought I would be in
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  • Nefetera
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    Thats 100 percent tru that the venue matters.
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  • Shanna
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    Lol the crazy thing is I only question when I see girls post their pictures. I don’t mean to look it’s just there. But I really like my dress it’s simple and I think fits with the venue well. I have two dresses but I’m not sure it I will change just yet. I mean I want to because my best friend bought my first dress. But it’s definitely a reception dress. I see myself walking down in the one I’m getting from David’s bridal
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    It’s common, but don’t let it get to you. All the dresses are beautiful or they wouldn’t sell. They may have a different venue, season, color scheme, or decor than you. And every body type is different so some fits and styles look better on Certain people.
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  • Shanna
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    Thank you so much that helps a lot lol! I only want to do this once! But like Nefetera said I can dress it up! Our theme has pearls incorporated so I think it will be fine
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  • Mrs.hays
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    Dress envy is real! I’ve been married for almost 2 years and sometimes when I see gorgeous dresses on here I feel bad about mine. I think it’s perfectly normal and if you still love your dress then that’s what matters.
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  • Shanna
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    Congratulations on two years! & thank you! I will keep that in mind
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  • Shanna
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    If you find a dress will you go with it or will you wear two dresses? Good luck!
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  • Alycia
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    Definitely, I live my dress but there are so many dresses it's hard not to want another one.
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  • Shanna
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    Lol right! I just want them all
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