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Mrs. S™
Master October 2011

Is this tacky?

Mrs. S™, on April 11, 2013 at 10:39 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 438

I always thought (yeah, tacky, I know) that if people invite me for their weddings, they actually want me to be there. But now I understand people do not expect all of their guests to show up, which is also tacky. We currently have 2 tacky invitations for 2 weddings this summer. I’m wondering if we...

I always thought (yeah, tacky, I know) that if people invite me for their weddings, they actually want me to be there. But now I understand people do not expect all of their guests to show up, which is also tacky.

We currently have 2 tacky invitations for 2 weddings this summer. I’m wondering if we are among those tacky guests who should decline but to the couple’s tacky surprise, we accept? Before you say anything negative, I understand it’s tacky we haven’t RSVPed before we received the invitations.

Is it tacky if I call the couples and ask them if that really want us to show up? Or should we decline and just send them a tacky gift?

Please help, but don’t comment if you’re going to say something tacky. Thanks!

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  • Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C)
    Master October 2013
    Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C) ·
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    I tacky can't tacky read any tacky of these tacky posts (tacky). Too much tackiness for my morning.

    But to tackily respond to your tacky question...

    I believe our parents are using our wedding as a means of a family reunion....no, I don't know much about nor do I care about some people and whether or not they show up. I think it depends on both your relationship with the couple as well as their parents/family and whether you actually want to go.

    Me... I never turn down a party haha but I don't think you need to do anything but RSVP when the time comes to send back that card (so they don't have to call you looking for an answer... like so many of our poor brides have to do). That would be tacky.

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  • Mrs. S™
    Master October 2011
    Mrs. S™ ·
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    Thank you MissB, I truly appreciate your constructive feedback.

    Because I really think lol-ing at my dilemma is tacky. It hurts my feeling, the tacky one.

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  • R
    Master June 2015
    RayRay ·
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    I refuse to answer such a tacky question.

    Although I do think PurpleSun's suggestions would be quite fun. And totally tacky.

    It's also tacky that you have feelings. And how tacky does the word tacky start to sound after reading it 7 billion times? TACKY.

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  • Buffee
    VIP June 2013
    Buffee ·
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    MissB is hilarious. And very helpful.

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  • MissB
    VIP May 2013
    MissB ·
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    Aww thanks Buffee lol I totally think you are tackiriffic!!!

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  • Rachel S.
    Master September 2013
    Rachel S. ·
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    You should also bring 5 guests with you. I'm sure the tacky wedding didn't invite your tacky husband, so instead Forget plus ones, bring about 5

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  • MJ
    Master June 2013
    MJ ·
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    RSVP no, and then show up with a crew of 20 and a gift of tacks, tacky paper, tacky stick. Must all be tacky gifts of course.

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  • J
    Super August 2013
    Jesyka ·
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    Tacky is the new chic! and I'm all over @Michelle P. and @Purplesun and their tacky fabulous responses

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  • Buffee
    VIP June 2013
    Buffee ·
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    Stop. You're making me blush!


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  • Mrs. S™
    Master October 2011
    Mrs. S™ ·
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    Well RayRay, now you know how I FEEL.

    I like tackiriffic. I hope it sticks around, because it's really tacky.

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  • Future Mrs.Eversole
    Super October 2013
    Future Mrs.Eversole ·
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    Can we tell the next anonymous that their ideas are tackiriffic? Maybe they will think its a compliment and stop complaining Smiley smile

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  • Chelle
    Super August 2013
    Chelle ·
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    Just bring the 53rd Governer of NY state, George Pataki, as your date!


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  • MissB
    VIP May 2013
    MissB ·
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    Ok grab your tacky crew of uninvited guests, grab your tacky gift and get ready to dance yor tacky paws off




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  • Rachel S.
    Master September 2013
    Rachel S. ·
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    Haha Chelle!!

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  • Buffee
    VIP June 2013
    Buffee ·
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    Hahahaha!!! MissB is on a ROLL today!

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  • Mrs. S™
    Master October 2011
    Mrs. S™ ·
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    Well, at least SOMEBODY is actually helping me!!!

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  • Married
    Super June 2013
    Married ·
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    I just wouldnt bother with sending your RSVP and dont go! You have better things to do with your time then worry about being tacky and being around tacky people! Smiley smile

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  • R
    Master June 2015
    RayRay ·
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    Go home, WeddingWire. You're drunk.

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  • FinallyDoingIt
    Master July 2014
    FinallyDoingIt ·
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    Lmao!! MissB omg I'm in tears over the jazz hands.

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  • MissB
    VIP May 2013
    MissB ·
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    I'm trying I'm trying lol

    I found your outfit!!!


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