I'm just going to go out here first and say, "This is more or less just venting and getting opinions of other brides." So, if you read this, Thank you.
The wedding is in less than 2 months. This coming weekend is our Wedding Shower (bride & groom) and my bachelorette party. I have 6 people on my side - 5 female, 1 male. Out of those 6, only 2 will be coming to either one.
Long story short: They tried to find a date that worked for all of them. They settled one and agreed to show up. One was most likely unable to attend, and that was okay. I get it. One tells me last month that her orders (military) have her leaving right before. That is also, 100% fine. One tells me she won't be attending either. No explanation. One won't show up either. Down to 2 (my MOH and my acting MOH b/c the actual one hasn't helped).
Now one says she will be in the state, available during the time of the events, but is choosing not to go.
Am I nuts for being a little peeved? I mean, they decided a date for the whole thing, they agreed and made a commitment. (Mind you, they're all within 100mi radius and I don't mind going and picking them up.) The whole thing has just been a nightmare of no one communicating with each other.
Any input or reassurance or "girl, you're being crazy" helps. Thank you.