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I've had a clear vision for our wedding right from the start, and I've stuck to it - true or false?

Lynnie, on August 27, 2019 at 11:40 AM

Posted in Planning 128

Did you know exactly how you envisioned your wedding from day one, or has it been a longer process? Have you changed your mind a ton or stuck with a specific style in mind? "I've had a clear vision for our wedding right from the start, and I've stuck to it" - true or false? Next Question: My...

Did you know exactly how you envisioned your wedding from day one, or has it been a longer process? Have you changed your mind a ton or stuck with a specific style in mind?

"I've had a clear vision for our wedding right from the start, and I've stuck to it" - true or false?


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128 Comments

  • Keri
    Expert November 2019
    Keri ·
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    We have had a short engagement and started planning right away so no time to change minds/vision. We're rolling with it!

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  • Brooklin
    Savvy September 2020
    Brooklin ·
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    Halfway true. I had a vision, but with other factors coming in to play i've had to change my mind.

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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
    Phoenix ·
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    The plans I had in my head turned out to be too expensive 🤪
    so I kept what I could and changed what I couldn’t. Didn’t set my heart on anything in particular Bc a lot of
    things had to be changed

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  • Fenja
    VIP August 2021
    Fenja ·
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    True-ish. It changed a little over time.
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  • R
    Savvy August 2021
    Rachele ·
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    True. However, I have allowed a tad shift due to my wedding planner being my aunt but we’re back on one accord.
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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
    ALYSSA ·
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    False- while I've had a pretty good vision, I'm also on a budget. I fear maybe the vision got lost accommodating the budget along the way, but I'm sure it will all come together.... or so people tell me.

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  • Katie
    Dedicated May 2020
    Katie ·
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    False! You always have a plan or vision but you get these new ideas and then you have your fiancé’s options and thoughts and then budget and so on and so forth and things just change. It gets fun sometimes.
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  • Brittany
    Super May 2020
    Brittany ·
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    False- originally I wanted my colors as Tiffany Blue, purple and gray with blue orchids and white roses as the flowers. My fiance had an entirely different color palette on the opposite side of the color spectrum, our colors are now pale pink, white, rose gold and sage.

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Well now that I’m 2weeks away I can answer! FH and I have been literally dreaming of our wedding since we were 15, we used to talk about it a lot and I remember even back we wanted a fantasy theme! When we started the real planning this year we remembered our old dream and wanted to make it reality. I think we’ve stuck to our theme almost completely.
    The only thing different is the venue because we wanted an actual forest but had to keep guest comfort in mind.
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  • Samantha
    Expert October 2019
    Samantha ·
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    False! I'm doing a wedding I never expected to have, lol but I'm excited for it!
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  • Macy
    Expert September 2019
    Macy ·
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    I had a clear vision until a few weeks ago and now we’re changing a lot. I got a new dress a little over a week ago! I get married in two weeks
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  • Lisa
    Expert April 2021
    Lisa ·
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    True! So far I can say this is true. I still have plenty of time to make changes though lol.
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  • Martika
    Expert September 2019
    Martika ·
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    False! What we planned, and what we are doing have has some differences. But nothing major.

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  • Tracy
    Dedicated August 2020
    Tracy ·
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    True! I haven't even let myself question any of my initial vision ideas like color and decor/vibe because it would honestly be too stressful to start planning from scratch.

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  • Marquita
    Dedicated January 2020
    Marquita ·
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    False false false. I’d completely stopped thinking about a wedding before I got engaged so I had absolutely no clue what I wanted
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  • Andrea
    Devoted October 2020
    Andrea ·
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    Very true! The only change is now is where, but the vision is still happening and he's in total agreeance.

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  • Brianna
    Devoted April 2025
    Brianna ·
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    Before I got engaged I had some ideas but as of today it's constantly changing
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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
    Jessica ·
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    False, I had a couple of ideas but once we settled on a theme it made things simpler. I have morphed my plans over time too.

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  • D
    Savvy October 2022
    Destiny ·
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    So far true. But that could change in a year
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  • E
    Devoted August 2020
    Elle ·
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    Pretty true, so far! I didn’t think I was going to like the venue that I ended up picking, and that was really the only surprise. I knew I wanted to get married in my church, I ended up picking the 1st photographer I had in mind, I stuck with pink dresses for the bridesmaid, I stuck with A-line for my dress, and I’m sticking with the same color of flowers I had originally thought.

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