Please help. I am in a bridal party and I was just told that we (the bridal party) are solely responsible for throwing the jack and jill. That means venue cost, alcohol, food, decorations, invitations, etc. The bride is also having a destination bachelorette party the month prior which is our (the bridal party) financial responsibility as well to cover ourselves and her entire long weekend. Flight, hotel, drinks, spa, etc. I've been in multiple weddings, but this seems extreme. Thoughts?
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