I don't want to have a bridal shower, I want my fiance to be party of it. I heard of a jack and jill party. I thought it was a bridal shower but just for the bride and groom. However upon a quick google it is apparently tacky and a way of saying you want money?
I don't want to ask people for money, I just want the party to be for both of us. I am a little confused, can someone explain to me exactly what it is? and why it's called "tacky"?