Has anyone seen a Jewish wedding where the sides were "flipped" with the bride on the left and groom on the right? We're having a (reform) Jewish ceremony (FH is Jewish, I'm not) and I wasn't aware it was traditional in Jewish ceremonies for the bride to stand on the right. I've seen video of one Jewish wedding at our venue where the bride stood on the left, but everything else I've seen has the bride on the right. Obviously this wouldn't matter to most people, but I am extremely self-conscious about the left side of my face which would be facing out if I did this, so I'm worried about it. We won't be able to ask our rabbi about this for a while, so I am hoping someone will be able to reassure me for now that they've at least seen it done. I've tried to research the meaning of the tradition and it doesn't seem like there is deep religious significance, so I'm hoping it is flexible.
Also - I realize it may be difficult to understand having this much of an issue with a particular side of my face. We all have our insecurities, and I'm really not looking for opinions as to whether this one is reasonable - just your experiences with Jewish weddings and whether you've ever seen a bride standing on the left as I would like to.