Hi everyone! 
I was one of many who postponed our wedding, we got married in August but postponed the wedding for March. (Fingers crossed that this new date will work out!) We've had the idea to go to Vegas as a group for awhile now, because I never went for my 21st. Hubby's friends and mine are all really close so it'll be fun to go as a group. However, due to COVID, we won't be going to Vegas.
We live in SoCal, and as of now, here are our top options: Santa Barbara, San Diego, Palm Springs & Big Bear. *We'd be going late January, so there'd be snow in Big Bear. We plan to have one night all together, and one night for just the boys and just the girls. Here's some things I want to do: spa, day drinking/shopping, maybe a brewery or something. Husband wants: gambling, golfing, drinking, lol. Our wedding experience has been exhausting, so we really want these parties to be fun (we also aren't doing a honeymoon, just had a local minimoon), but affordable.
Any other ideas for activities and/or locations? TIA
*Disclaimer: Not into wineries or strip clubs
