So I think I made a mistake... I asked one of my co workers to be my day of coordinator. I explained to her in detail what I needed her to do and that I only needed her the day of the wedding and not before. I just needed one simple thing from her and that was to never discuss my wedding planning business at work or with any other employee. I gave her time to think about it because I wanted her to be sure. She came back to me that Monday and said yes. Great! I started talking to her about some things like vendors and the wedding day timeline privately. I'm thinking everything was going well. Recently while talking with other co workers I spoke about how my fiancés family is stressing me with arrangements. Nothing I can't handle myself and it was just me talking to my co workers in conversations. I'm noticing now that every time I mention something she says, "You need to let your coordinator handle that" or "tell them to call me". It's like she's trying to let people know that she's the coordinator. My question is should I tell her I changed my mind or just talk to her again about what I asked for her not to do?
P.S. I don't discuss any plans with any other co workers. But if someone ask how's things are going, I'll answer them, but I don't give many details.
