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Sandy
Beginner July 2016

just a maid of honor and no bridesmaids

Sandy, on October 11, 2015 at 3:01 AM Posted in Do It Yourself 0 28

Would it be a bad idea to just have a maid of honor and best man, but no bridesmaids and groomsmen?

28 Comments

Latest activity by Private User, on October 12, 2015 at 7:30 AM
  • SoontobeMrsV
    Savvy November 2015
    SoontobeMrsV ·
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    We are only have a moh and bm... i dont see anything wrong with it

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  • Sandy
    Beginner July 2016
    Sandy ·
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    I have four really close friends, but my finance don't have that many friends to count on. And I don't want him feel like has to go fishing for people he really don't talk with that much to accommodate that size of women

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  • Michelle
    Expert May 2016
    Michelle ·
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    My adult daughter is MOH. FH has no one he can count on so....just the 3 of us with minister.

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  • Gonefishes
    Super May 2016
    Gonefishes ·
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    You can hve the girls walk by themselves if u really wanted to. But, I'm not hving a bridal party. It's less stressful for me.

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  • RJmargo
    Master May 2016
    RJmargo ·
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    You can have just an MOH and BM if you want. You can also do BM, MOH, and 3 bridesmaids if you want to include your four bffs. Bridal parties don't have to be even, so either way work. It's whatever you and FH are comfortable with.

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  • JMthirteen
    Devoted September 2015
    JMthirteen ·
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    That's what we did! They walked together down the aisle and leaving the aisle and they walked in together during the grand march. We only used one song for all of us to enter.

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  • WolfWedding2016
    Master May 2016
    WolfWedding2016 ·
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    That is what we are doing as well!

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  • KB
    VIP December 2015
    KB ·
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    I think that is perfectly fine. You can have one person each, no people standing with you (as long as you arrange someone to be your witness) or many people. That is one part that really is completely up to you and what you feel comfortable with.

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  • FormerUser
    Master July 2015
    FormerUser ·
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    You can do whatever you want! :-)

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  • Bride2b
    VIP September 2016
    Bride2b ·
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    We are also just having a MOH and a BM.

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  • Kelli
    Master September 2015
    Kelli ·
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    That's what we did!

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  • JamieLynn
    Master June 2016
    JamieLynn ·
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    HI Sandy! That would be perfectly fine!

    I see you are newer here - Welcome!! Please change your avatar, you will get more responses that way. People sometimes see the double rings as trolls and won't look or respond. Change your avatar, do an intro, & stick around so we can get to know you! Smiley smile

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  • onawho
    VIP August 2015
    onawho ·
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    We did that. I had my MOH and DH had is best friend, a woman who we called "the best bird"

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  • Nicole
    Master July 2015
    Nicole ·
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    Yes, bridesmaids and groomsmen are wonderful, but you will save yourself so much stress and money by only having a MOH and a BM. Another pro is that you'll have a smaller chance of having friends have hurt feelings that they didn't make "the cut." Congrats and change your avatar!

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  • Sandy
    Beginner July 2016
    Sandy ·
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    Thank you everyone for the comments, and Nicole, I was worry about that as well too, @jamielynn, I was trying to upload a photo of me and fiance but the app it doesn't seem to wanna upload picture from my phone.

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  • Mjayye
    Savvy August 2017
    Mjayye ·
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    Hi Sandy-- I originally only wanted to have a MOH (my sister), but my FH wants a BM and a couple groomsmen. So I've decided to have a MOH, 1 BM, and 2 Jr. bms (to include my daughter and niece). Do what you want-- its YOUR wedding!

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  • WiseOwl
    Super May 2016
    WiseOwl ·
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    I am only having my MOH and FH is having 2 best men

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  • FutureMrsReno
    Expert October 2016
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    Not at all! Your wedding can be whatever you want it to be! Personally, I think small wedding parties are AWESOME! I'm just having a Matron of Honor and a Man of Honor, and FH has two best men. It will be small and intimate, and truly made up of our very best friends!

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  • N
    Master October 2016
    no1 ·
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    Honestly I think its better than adding people just to be traditional. I'm having no bridesmaid or maid of honor or groomsmen. Just me and my fiance, two flower girls and ring bearer. I dont have any super close girl friends and I'm not fond of having my female cousins have a reason to start drama

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  • OriginalKD
    Master December 2015
    OriginalKD ·
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    Hi Sandy - FH and I are only having a MOH and BM. It has been blissfully stress free with fewer opinions to accommodate and people to coordinate. Oh, welcome and happy planning

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