Such exciting news but feeling mix of emotions as was so excited for the wedding, to dance all night long, eat oysters and drink champagne! I’m almost 39 and have waited SO long and kissed many frogs to find my husband and couldn’t be happier to marry him!
Now after all of this excitement and planning, feels less exciting knowing I will likely feel somewhat uncomfortable and swollen and not FULLY enjoy
Wedding is end of May and invitations have not gone out so we could pull back and postpone a year. Due in early October so baby would be 8 months if we postponed a year.
One unique situation: we are already planning to do a small family only religious ceremony, and 2 days later have a much broader group for exchanging of vows and the big reception (with big fun band!)
So what do we do??
- Keep date and do everything as planned
- Postpone bigger ceremony / reception and keep the religious ceremony and small gathering after to make it legal before baby
Key concerns about postponing is whether we will want to have wedding 8 months after birth, plus disrupting peoples plans, but having it and knowing I won’t fully enjoy and feel like my attention is pulled and distracted is also devastating! Help!
