We know we want a beach wedding, it's always been my dream wedding setting and my fiance is in agreement on that. We (and our combined 4 kids and my friends) live in AK, my parents live in Boston, and his family and best friend/likely groomsmen lives in the UK. No matter what, a DW is happening. We've narrowed it down to FL or HI.
Now the dillema of WHERE. We want future FIL's to come, however they didn't come to my FH's first marriage in AK, so who knows if they'd come over stateside no matter where it is. FL is closer to both sets of parents, but HI is closer to us/tbh my dream destination/FH doesn't really care where, and only threw FL down as sa suggestion since it's closer to parents. My parents are willing to travel wherever we go, but my FH hasn't had this discussion with his parents and we are tentively set to get married Feb 2022-the people in my life need the STD/time to plan if they are coming. We need to start booking venues, day of coordinators potentially, etc. and a year will be here before we know it. I'm just so stressed out--I want to REALLY start planning vs getting estimates and falling in love with venues in two separate places.
