Just thought this was funny

Wow....just wow, lol. My FH is going on a camping trip to a Mud Bog / Concert. The only thing we mutually requested / decided on for each other was no strippers. I am going on my bachelorette TODAY to a beach cottage for the entire weekend....so excited, lol.

Ok that’s an insane amount of ridiculous requests. I would never tell my FH things he is not allowed to do or not let him go somewhere. He’s a grown man and can make his own decisions and if they are bad ones, he suffers the consequences. My FH’s bachelor party is more relaxed with a camping and rafting weekend. I’m positive they will most likely be drunk, but I trust them enough to do so responsibly.

My FH's bachelor party was last weekend. They went on a fishing charter.

My FH has a couple of friends in Maine and one is a groomsman so the rest of the guys and a couple of other friends are going to Maine to play golf and hang out for a weekend.

That's really funny! I hope she was kidding lol

We are having a joint party. The theme is "battle of the sexes". Corn hole, beer pong etc... This is both our second marriage and we are older so decided on this instead of the traditional separate parties.

Holy crap that list! H went to a baseball game and then they had a bbq in the yard.

Mine went rock climbing and then karaoking - totally laid back. i think it's better that way, they can make memories and have legit adventures together. the whole strippers for bachelor and bachelorette parties are just so overdone. i don't really care if he did do the typical bachelor party though but i definitely feel like doing something different would just be more fun rather than going with what people usually do

My fiance went to Atlantic City! He said it was amazing!

Knowing mine his will be a laid back video game night at a friends house. His best man isn't much of a planner so I suspect it will get thrown together pretty last minute.

My fiance told me I could have female strippers.
I told him he could have male strippers.

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Yay!! Good for you!! Have a great time!!

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LMAO!!!! That's freaking hilarious!!! I'll have to suggest this idea to my FH!

FH has never been into the stripper thing, so I'm not worried. I think they are going to rent a party bus and cruise around San Francisco bar hopping! Like someone else said, I don't need a list like this. My man is a grown up (sort of) and he can make his choices. He will suffer any consequences that go with any bad choices. But the larger point is that I trust him. He would never betray me, or our family, and that is all that matters.

Why should I care if he wants to get drunk and act a fool? Party on!!

View Quoted Comment I was thinking the same thing, lol. I think this sounds so fun. If one of friends hadn't already decided to plan a bachelorette party I think we would of did a joint party. I love bbqs and fries so we could have done something like that at his brothers house. My FH keeps saying he doesn't want a party. So I thought his brother just plan something I will get him there.

View Quoted Comment I feel the same way. I was laughing this morning when I saw this thread. A party bus sounds fun and safe. I hope he has a blast

My FH keeps saying he doesnt need a bachelor party. I'm like what it's tradition. I'm not sure what they will do. His brother just said the other day "he won't give me any ideas for weekend availability" I said pick a weekend I will make sure he is available for 🙂

View Quoted Comment Lol too funny but genius

View Quoted Comment This would so be up my FH alley. This would be great unfortunately his friends probably aren't game. These memories would be something to have forever. Sometimes with bat hopping you forget 🤣

View Quoted Comment I know I laughed then thought this may be the first red flags for this guy. I hope she was kidding

View Quoted Comment My FH best lives 4 hours away so his brother is planning it. Originally they were going to go bar hoping in their college down but now FH keeps saying I don't need one. Honestly a lot of the guys he hangs out with are his brothers friends so I think he sort of feels like nobody would come ☹ his closest friends dont live close and probably couldn't attend