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Keep or Cancel: Bouquet Toss?

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Lynnie, on July 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

To toss the bouquet, or not to toss? 💐 That is the divisive question! Some brides are so over this outdated tradition, and don't want to drag out all their single friends onto the dance floor while "single ladies" plays. Other brides can't imagine it feeling like a wedding without this classic and...

Which side of the bouquet debate are you on? Keep or cancel?

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Master October 2019
Laura · on July 16, 2019 at 1:11 PM
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Keep it! I will NOT be using "all the single ladies" as the song though, can't stand the song or the singer. Going with "girls just wanna have fun" by Cyndi Lauper
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Btbride · on July 16, 2019 at 1:14 PM
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Hard cancel. I hate it.
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Super September 2019
Selena · on July 16, 2019 at 1:15 PM
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Cancel, we have no single ladies attending
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Expert October 2019
Tonia · on July 16, 2019 at 1:23 PM
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I would love to keep, but cancelling. Over 75% of my guests are not single.
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SraDeCarrillo · on July 16, 2019 at 1:24 PM
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This is a really good idea because I don’t want to give up my bouquet and was thinking of buying a toss bouquet. What sort of prize will you have?
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Meghan · on July 16, 2019 at 1:28 PM
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We haven't decided yet. Probably a couple of gift cards though we tossed around the thought of some cute plushies or something.
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Amanda · on July 16, 2019 at 1:29 PM
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I love this idea so much!!
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SraDeCarrillo · on July 16, 2019 at 1:30 PM
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We are keeping it because our crowd expects it. We have lots of singles and I caught the bouquet at my cousins wedding and then met my FH a few months later.
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Lauren · on July 16, 2019 at 1:39 PM
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Keep! I think the traditional tosses are fun.
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Amanda · on July 16, 2019 at 1:42 PM
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Keep. I think it's a fun way to get people up & involved.
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Dedicated September 2019
Arianna · on July 16, 2019 at 1:45 PM
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Cancel. I will be giving my single girls flowers from a bouquet and praying over them. I don't want to single anyone out and I'm not the party type anyway. I would rather make it something more personal and intimate.
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Aliciabilly2019 · on July 16, 2019 at 1:46 PM
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Keep ! I love traditions some of thr time but i feel this is a keep. It keeps it interesting and funny to see who gets it and the garter and then who had to put it on the girl who catches the bouquet lol so i say deff a keep
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Aliciabilly2019 · on July 16, 2019 at 1:48 PM
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Sradecarrillo ME to thats to funny i caught bouquet at my cuz wedding in middle of march and got with my now FH same month but like week or 2 later and now here we are getting married 6 and half years later but its happening lol
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VIP December 2019
Diana · on July 16, 2019 at 1:48 PM
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Cancel....I don’t want my single lady guest fighting over some flowers!!!
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Dedicated January 2021
Future Mrs X · on July 16, 2019 at 1:52 PM
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Cancel! I hated it when I ever attended weddings and I still hate it now. I also think the Garter toss is tacky. IMO.
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Alex · on July 16, 2019 at 1:56 PM
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I'm on the fence about the bouquet toss, but the garter toss is definitely out. I'm a little on the conservative side and the whole thing makes me cringe.
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Master January 2021
Andrea · on July 16, 2019 at 1:59 PM
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No point of the bouquet toss for us, cancelled!
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Just Said Yes October 2019
Monica · on July 16, 2019 at 2:05 PM
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I will be tossing my bouquet at the beach also.
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Heather · on July 16, 2019 at 2:39 PM
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Uhhh, well I think I would only have like 5 people up there, so (after finding it on WW) I might see what FH thinks about doing the anniversary dance.
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Tamera · on July 16, 2019 at 3:02 PM
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Cancel. There are other things I would rather do, and it is awkward.
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