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Keep or Cancel: Cake Smash?

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Lynnie, on July 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

It's our final tradition! How do you feel about the cake smash? Is it a cute and fun memorable wedding moment? Or would you be super pissed if your new spouse smashed cake in your face? 🍰 What's your vote on the cake smash? Keep or cancel? Photo by Naomi Wong Photography in Kapaa, HI Thanks for...

It's our final tradition! How do you feel about the cake smash? Is it a cute and fun memorable wedding moment? Or would you be super pissed if your new spouse smashed cake in your face? 🍰

What's your vote on the cake smash? Keep or cancel?

Photo by Naomi Wong Photography in Kapaa, HI

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Beginner November 2019
Kathryn · on July 22, 2019 at 12:31 PM
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Cancel. We are going to cut the cake and feed it to each other, but I do not want to pay money for makeup to have to wash my face off or have my face sticky for the rest of the night. I do not like messes, haha!
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Beginner October 2019
Jessica · on July 22, 2019 at 12:43 PM
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So torn. It’s cute and fun but messy. And I would hate to have to redo my makeup so more than likely, Cancel it.
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Just Said Yes October 2019
Magi Urbina · on July 22, 2019 at 2:13 PM
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Nope... i can go without. Birthdays yes Weddings no..
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Dedicated October 2022
Sherraine · on July 22, 2019 at 2:34 PM
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And ruin my make up? that i spent money one?? nah.
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Beginner June 2021
Tornia · on July 23, 2019 at 7:19 AM
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Cancel. don't care so much for the cake and neither does FH. so we will just cut and take a bite for photos and be done
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Beginner August 2020
Katie · on July 23, 2019 at 2:07 PM
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Keep, this is hilarious in my opinion! Love it!!
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Devoted October 2019
Laura · on July 23, 2019 at 2:13 PM
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We’re not smashing cake in each other’s face, absolutely not. I thought we’re supposed to just feed each other a small piece?? Anyway, we’ll keep it neat and tidy.
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Super September 2019
Denise · on July 23, 2019 at 2:20 PM
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Keep. We both are excited for this part and are on the same page so... definitely going to be some cake flying!
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Savvy December 2019
Samantha · on July 23, 2019 at 11:31 PM
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Cancel, I do not want cake smashed in my face.
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VIP March 2019
Yoice · on July 23, 2019 at 11:35 PM
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Cancel! We talked about it before hand and I was not into it at all. Luckily he agreed.
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Savvy November 2019
J2B · on July 23, 2019 at 11:35 PM
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Cancel. It's can get too messy.
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Devoted October 2019
Star · on July 23, 2019 at 11:38 PM
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Cancel. Not going to spend immense amounts of time/money to look good and then end up having cake and buttercream all over me 🤣. Save it for the anniversary maybe 😏 😂
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Expert October 2019
Samantha · on July 24, 2019 at 12:30 AM
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Cancel! Its too messy and I don't want to worry about getting my dress sticky and dirty.
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Savvy February 2020
Karen · on July 24, 2019 at 12:15 PM
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Cancel - we both feel it's disrespectful. Besides, if I spend a fortune on my hair, makeup and dress, I don't want to undo it all with a piece of cake!
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Savvy December 2020
Kristen · on July 26, 2019 at 12:35 PM
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Cancel!! Messy, messes up make-up, hair and clothing. Plus, super disrespectful. No other time would anyone shove food in your face, why do it on your wedding day??? Not a fan.
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Beginner November 2019
Brianna · on July 26, 2019 at 10:49 PM
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Cancel, mess up my makeup!
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Devoted September 2019
ALYSSA · on July 30, 2019 at 2:02 PM
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Cancel- feed me cake, but make it nice
my dress is too pretty to risk! At least that's the excuse I'm sticking to.
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Just Said Yes April 2020
Qgarcia73 · on July 30, 2019 at 9:41 PM
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Cancel - too messy. Feeding is ok...not smashing
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Just Said Yes October 2019
Julianne · on July 31, 2019 at 6:47 AM
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Cancel-- at least for me, personally! I think it can be cute and fun, but If I am having my makeup done and a million pictures taken I don't want my face to be smeared with cake!
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Savvy July 2019
Natta · on July 31, 2019 at 6:06 PM
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We kept it and it was my favorite part of the reception. lol. We jumped into the photo booth afterwards covered in icing - it made for great photos. We had planned to do it, so it's definitely something you're going to want to discuss with each other so that you're on the same page.
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