Keep or Cancel: Garter Toss?

I'm hoping to not have this. . .I haven't brought it up. .. still early in the planning

CANCEL! Also seen this go bad. Biggest example: my older brother's wedding. His wife's younger sister caught the bouquet, and my older brother's and my younger brother caught the garter. Younger sister ended up grinding on younger brother for the rest of the night! 😖

Cancel. I have no desire for this to happen.

I don't think we will do this!

Absolutely cancelling this. I don’t want my fiancé going up my skirt in front of our grandparents! Plus who wants a random man catching a garter that just came off of your leg? It’s just weird. Plus, no one wants to be called out for being single.

Cancel same situation for men, and the dance to your women we don't like or going under the dress infront of everyone and family can get pretty weird.

Canceling it

CANCEL! It's so embarrassing to have done - this needs to go!

I’m thinking about cutting out the bouquet and garter...We won’t have many singles at out wedding.

Cancel! I find it very awkward for your spouse to be reaching under your dress in front of your family and friends! I'll pass lol

We will probably keep this one

Cancel. I've always found it SUPER awkward

Cancel. My fiancé wouldn't feel comfortable with the majority of our wedding consisting of family. My poor grandmother..

Cancel! Cancel! Cancel! So tacky to have my husband reach up my dress in front of our family!

Cancel. I'm not even thinking about a garter and I think the whole thing of the guy going up a girls dress in front of everyone is tacky. Not a fan.

Cancel. It is so awkward! I don't need my new husband reaching up in my dress in front of all my guests.

Not a fan of this one either. Cancel

For me it is a tradition, its a keep

I've never seen one and to be honest I'd forgotten this was a thing.
But not for me. It feels too weird

It is up to my fiancee. Whatever he wants to do, is ok with me