Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

We are staying the night before wedding apart only because we are having a very non traditional wedding... doing first look rather than waiting until ceremony... no religious mention... and less structure all around...

We thought it would be nice to hold onto one traditional detail.

His grooms party has an airbnb, best man has air bnb, family has airbnb.... so he has a ton of options to stay free somewhere.

My Fiance is the one looking to keep! He does not want to see me the day of until we are at the isle.

Keep. This is one thing I don’t mind. Chances are he’ll be with his groomsmen and I’ll be with my bridesmaids.

Cancel. We live together and the venue is too close for anything else to make sense.

Keep! We are renting a huge house for our wedding party and us the night before the wedding, Although we will be in the same house, we wont be sleeping in the same room!

Keep! My husband is in the army, and we’re waiting to get stationed elsewhere. Our wedding is in 2021 and we will return back home to Las Vegas to have our dream wedding. Since we won’t be living there, I think it would be a cute idea to spend the night with my girls (since we will be spending brunch together the next day before getting ready) and he has a night with his guys.

Cancel. I don't see the point, but that's just me.

Keeping!! I’ve known him since high school and we have been dating for years ...a day apart would give him time to miss me I was thinking of no sex for 6 months but I don’t want to push it lol

Cancel. We will be sleeping together the night before and traveling to the venue together the next morning.

We are keeping the tradition I am staying the night with my mom he will stay at our place

Keep! We don’t sleep well apart, but I feel like it’ll make it that much more special!

Keep! Im spending time my bach. Plus i want to write my letter to my future husband for him to read while he is getting ready.

We are split.

He says keep. He says he wants to have an exciting lead up and have our first kiss of the day be our first kiss as husband and wife. He wants to stay at his grandparents and then only see me as I walk down the aisle.

I say cancel. We have a 1 year old son who has never spent a night apart from me (hes in the military, so always home). We arent going on a honeymoon because we wouldnt have a sitter anyway, so we are working toward his first sleep over... after the wedding. If he leaves, I'm on my own with our son all night and hes a light sleeper. I think his thought is cute but it's going to be a hassle too...

I think cancel but I haven't really decided for sure. My friend did it and it was so convenient just to kick him out at 7 or 8am. You'll still get the same feeling and your won't sleep like crap without them 😂

Keep! We are hardly ever apart so doing so will make for a better experience when we see each other at the altar. We are not even doing a first look!

I feel that you shouldn’t stay with your fiancé the day before the wedding. You should try to stay apart for one night and save the surprise of seeing each other when the bride walks down the aisle in her wedding gown.

Keep. I like the idea that this builds anticipation to see each other for the ceremony.

Keep, we are living together, but we don't want to see each other at all the day of until the ceremony. We have a complimentary suite the night before because of our wedding package which I will stay in with my maid of honor, he will stay in her room.

Keep because our venue is about 45 mins from our house. Also, it's easier for me & my girls to wake up together since we're all getting ready in the am. Same with my FH's guys.

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Omg!! I feel the same way, we've lived together for 6 years, one night won't kill him lol but damn I couldn't do 6 months no sex