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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

Lynnie, on July 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Community Conversations 277

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition? Keep or cancel? Next Question: Matching Bridesmaids Dresses Back to the Beginning: Keep or Cancel?

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition?

Keep or cancel?


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Back to the Beginning: Keep or Cancel?

277 Comments

  • Kacy
    Beginner October 2019
    Kacy ·
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    Definitely Keep!
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  • Alyssa
    Beginner September 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Keep! It adds to the anticipation of the big day Smiley smile
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  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
    Michaela ·
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    Keep! It makes the first look a little more special Smiley smile

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  • P & J
    Dedicated February 2020
    P & J ·
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    Keeping it! I plan to not see him the entire day before the wedding. I think it’ll make the moment we meet during the ceremony a little more special ❤️
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  • M
    Savvy June 2018
    Mary ·
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    Keep! It was nice to have some alone time before the wedding.
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  • Mary
    Dedicated September 2019
    Mary ·
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    Our venue is out of town and is an airbnb that sleeps 5. I had always thought I'd just stay with my fiance the night before but after staying with my bff the night before her wedding it was so much fun to be with a group of girls and seemed less stressful!! I've decided to stay with my bridesmaids instead.

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  • Kaitlyn
    Dedicated July 2020
    Kaitlyn ·
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    We will keep it.
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  • Jessica
    Savvy September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Keep!!! I can’t wait to spend my last night with my parents at their house like old times.
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  • latasha
    VIP September 2019
    latasha ·
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    We are keeping this. We will both be sleeping separately in an Airbnb with our side of the bridal party.
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  • A
    Savvy October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    Keeping this one. I don't want him to see me that day until I'm all done up.
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  • Cora
    Savvy June 2021
    Cora ·
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    Cancel- we already live and sleep together, why pay for two rooms?
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  • Katlyn
    Devoted December 2021
    Katlyn ·
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    Keep! I think it's really sweet way to build the anticipation of the wedding day.

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  • Kim
    Savvy September 2019
    Kim ·
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    Cancel. There really isn't a reason to do this anymore.
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  • Robin
    Savvy October 2020
    Robin ·
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    I didn't know this was a thing. Cancel, please!

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  • J
    Savvy November 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    Keep. Some traditions are meant to elevate excitement and enhance first looks on your wedding day. This is one of those traditions. Also, beauty rest is important!
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  • A
    Beginner February 2020
    Alicia ·
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    Cancel. We like to be together all the time and im not really superstitious.


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  • Angel
    Savvy February 2022
    Angel ·
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    Keep. It makes the night if the wedding feel a little more special. There is a giddiness that is built up and doesn’t just become another night that you are going home with your significant other. I actually plan on spending a few nights apart before the wedding to make it more special.
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  • Samantha
    Super August 2019
    Samantha ·
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    Keeping! I’m getting ready with my bridal party so I got us a shared loft, he’s staying with his dad, BM and brothers at our cabin and getting ready with them. Meeting before the wedding though for a first look.
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  • Arkilia
    Super November 2021
    Arkilia ·
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    We are keeping this.
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  • Sasha
    Dedicated September 2019
    Sasha ·
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    Cancelling this... but still not going to let him see me the day of until it's walking down the aisle time.

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