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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Keep or Skip: Carrying over the Threshold?

Lynnie, on May 30, 2018 at 1:34 PM

Posted in Community Conversations 63

This week we're playing " keep or skip " with popular wedding traditions! ✔️❌ Last question!!! Do you plan on carrying your new spouse over the threshold? Or plan on being carried? Are you keeping or skipping this wedding night tradition? Thanks for weighing in!! If you missed our other...

This week we're playing " keep or skip " with popular wedding traditions! ✔️

Last question!!! Do you plan on carrying your new spouse over the threshold? Or plan on being carried? Are you keeping or skipping this wedding night tradition?


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Thanks for weighing in!! Smiley star

If you missed our other questions you can start from the beginning here: Keep or Skip?

On a roll and want to answer more wedding questions? You might love: Your wedding in numbers!, Are you inviting...? , and DIY or Pro?

63 Comments

  • S
    Super May 2020
    Shari ·
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    Yeah...no...!

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  • A_Mart
    Super April 2025
    A_Mart ·
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    I'd like to do this, but would worry about my dress ripping/getting stepped on!

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  • L
    Expert October 2018
    Linda ·
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    Skipping but we are both older and have back issues
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    Skipping for sure. I'm not a small person. He doesn't need to break his back lol

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  • Heather
    Expert August 2018
    Heather ·
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    We didn't even think about this, but it's safe to say this is a no from me.
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  • Kaylan
    Dedicated March 2020
    Kaylan ·
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    Probably keep. He would have to carry me. We would just fall over the threshold of I tried to carry him.
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  • Kim
    Dedicated June 2018
    Kim ·
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    We haven't even talked about this one, but I'd like to keep it!

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  • Danielle K
    VIP June 2019
    Danielle K ·
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    KEEP!! LOL I have told FH he is expected to carry me through every threshold (hotel, resort, house, plane, etc) until we go back to work but since our honeymoon is now delayed a few month it looks like he is gonna be tired lmao jk no but we probably will either when we get home and maybe when we go to our hotel room that night if we aren't too intoxicated lol

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  • Kelsey Brielle
    Super June 2022
    Kelsey Brielle ·
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    Keeping. He loves to pick me up any chance he gets.
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  • N
    Dedicated August 2018
    Nicole ·
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    We’re going to skip because my dress is big and our entrance is small
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  • BB-H
    VIP September 2018
    BB-H ·
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    I'm not really planning on it. Unless he wants to do it. He can lift me, but I feel like I'm probably kind of heavy for that. Plus the cat might want to run out the door, so there may be no time to be romantic about it. And my dress is really poofy and the door may be too narrow.

    But I'd love to if we could lol

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  • C
    Dedicated September 2019
    Cassandra ·
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    Skip!
    A) we already live together
    B) I am a BIG girl
    C) it feel like a silly superstition to me.
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  • B
    Dedicated September 2018
    BETHANY ·
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    Probably skip I don't want to throw his back out cuz I'm to heavy.
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  • Robyn
    Expert October 2018
    Robyn ·
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    Skipping for sure
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  • M
    Beginner May 2020
    Melissa ·
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    Keep! That’s cute. Might forget about this one though.
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  • Kelly
    Devoted August 2018
    Kelly ·
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    I think we're going to skip that. I'm sue thday I won't even remember that it's a thing on the wedding day
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  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
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    I am too self-conscious about my weight to do this.
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  • Kaylyn
    Super May 2019
    Kaylyn ·
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    Probably skip
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  • Laura
    Champion June 2010
    Laura ·
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    Skipped. We were both sooo tired we never even considered it!

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  • rica
    VIP September 2018
    rica ·
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    I haven't thought about it, but why not!! I'm sure FH will. I'm a lot smaller than him too, so it's not really an unusual thing for us.

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