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Jameson
Dedicated June 2017

Kicked out of the wedding party...

Jameson, on April 3, 2016 at 11:51 AM

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So I just got back from the bridal shower for my friend's wedding who booted me from the bridal party. No dramatic reason for the boot. It was simply because one of her FH's groomsmen was unable to follow through so "some cuts had to be made"... I was told at the engagement party in front of...

So I just got back from the bridal shower for my friend's wedding who booted me from the bridal party. No dramatic reason for the boot. It was simply because one of her FH's groomsmen was unable to follow through so "some cuts had to be made"... I was told at the engagement party in front of everyone. It was great. ANYWHO, same thing happened to my best friend. She was a bridesmaid, another groomsmen bailed and "another cut had to be made"... This time the bride told her via facebook and hasn't said a word about it since. Fast forward to the bridal shower. Best friend and I got to listen to the bride and bridal party rave about all things bridesmaid and the bachelorette party which we haven't heard a word about. Spent the rest of the party sitting at the corner table. It's not a huge deal, just an awkward situation and interesting story I thought some peeps might enjoy! lol

Anyone else here been booted from the party or have been the bootee? Share your stories! Smiley smile

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  • Heather
    Super October 2016
    Heather ·
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    Your friend is a dick... Sorry but she is

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  • JoRocka
    Master September 2016
    JoRocka ·
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    Time for a new friend! Not sure why you still went to the shower. She's a bitch.

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  • MsKellie
    Super October 2017
    MsKellie ·
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    Wow. That's really rude. Do people not know bridal parties don't have to be even on each side? So weird.

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  • Delisa
    Master July 2016
    Delisa ·
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    And that's when I would've booted her from my life. I have no need for "friends" like that.

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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    So unbelievably rude. Jamie, you're a better friend than I would e been in that situation. Honestly I wouldn't go to the wedding.

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  • Mrs. Knolle
    Master July 2016
    Mrs. Knolle ·
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    Wow.

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  • Susan
    Master March 2015
    Susan ·
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    I would have dumped her as a friend after she dumped me as a BM for no reason. I sure as hell would not have went to the shower or got her a gift. RSVP yes and don't show. She is an asshole and deserves it.

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  • K
    Savvy September 2016
    Kristen ·
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    Wow, so disrespectful, sorry to hear that! You're better off!

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  • Naomi
    Devoted March 2017
    Naomi ·
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    Wow I would never do that to someone

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  • Christa
    Devoted October 2017
    Christa ·
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    Super rude...I don't know why they didn't just have more bridesmaids than groomsmen... I can't with some people.

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  • Amy
    Super December 2016
    Amy ·
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    Sounds like a Bridezilla! Sorry doll, I'm sure you have better things do with your time anyways. Smiley smile

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  • Natalie
    Master September 2016
    Natalie ·
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    That's horrible! It doesn't matter if a groomsmen backed out of the wedding or not, I would still keep every person I asked to be a BM. Uneven numbers do not matter.. WOW is all I can say.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    Umm... what??? This person would not be a friend anymore if I got "booted" from a bridal party but ESPECIALLY for something so petty! I am shocked you went to the shower still too! You are a better person than me that's for sure!

    Also, please change your avatar to something other than the rings! They are associated with spam/trolls, so it will help you get more responses to your posts and it makes the forums easier to navigate.

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  • Kathryn
    VIP August 2016
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    I can't believe that! SO rude. You're a better person than me, I would've been no where near that bridal shower or the wedding either. I'm so sorry that happened to you!

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  • Janelle G.
    Super December 2017
    Janelle G. ·
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    I found this to be super rude.

    I actually was booted once. my then friend booted me as her MOH because my job wasn't as flexible as her's and so i couldn't be running all over the place checking and choosing things and locations etc. AMMMM that's not the job of the bridal party but such is life. She's now separated from her husband.

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  • Chrises
    Super November 2016
    Chrises ·
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    Dude I'd still go to the wedding. Free drinks? I say free because certainly I'm not buying a damn gift for a person like that.

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  • Mrs.T_618
    VIP June 2016
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    I was once asked to be a bridesmaid then unasked to make room for the bride's sister. Then the couple told me that I could bring anyone BUT my boyfriend at the time. Needless to say, I didn't bother.

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  • K
    Super October 2016
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    That's so rude! I don't understand the "must have an even # wedding party on each side." FH has 5. I have 2. I couldn't imagine having anyone else up there with me and he can't imagine not having them with him.

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  • Cassandra
    Super August 2016
    Cassandra ·
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    This seems horribly rude and awful. So sorry you had to put up with this.

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  • L
    Just Said Yes July 2017
    Leah ·
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    I have a friend who has picked nine women and it each week she says oh I need to make some cuts ..The cuts of yet to happen but it just makes me question her friendships with these people she will supposedly cut.

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