KWR- Any ex bf or ex gf drama surrounding your wedding/marriage?

There was a guy who had a huge crush on me (even though I'd been dating DH since long before I knew him....) who, when I told him I was getting married, said, "Well, I guess you're in it for the money." Seriously, you think I invested 10 years in DH cause I knew, when we were 16, that some day he'd be a Silicon Valley programmer? Last time I communicated with him.....

When FH and I first started dating, he worked with an ex-boyfriend (from about a year and a half before I met FH). I didn't know they worked together when I first started dating FH, but FH would come home and tell me stories and I had this feeling it was my ex so I showed FH a picture on Facebook and he confirmed that it was the same guy. I visited FH at work one day and my ex saw me. He kept trying to contact me then and I would have nothing to do with it. From then on he started asking my FH about me and would ask him if our relationship was going well. He tried to get FH to dislike me by telling him that I was a virgin and I wouldn't give it up for him and all of this ridiculous stuff. It was getting so out of hand so I told him off through FB message and that was the last time I heard from him.

@Audrey Holy shit I just read that, and I'm saying this as a believer of karma, but how the fuck is DYING KARMA?!

FH's ex was BFF with his sister. She chose her side in their breakup. Needless to say, we don't have a great relationship. The ex didn't come to her wedding last year, but her friends kept barrading FH the whole night. It was awkward.

I have been engaged for 7 months now. I am very happy to have not heard anything from any exes. My first boyfriend was an abusive POS who was pretty manipulative and stalker-like. I have him blocked on facebook and thankfully have not talked to him in about 8 years.

@Mrs. CK- I think you misinterpreted @Audrey's comment. She's saying that @Loren's remark about a woman dying young being "hit with the karma stick" is messed up. Not agreeing with her.

Every time there is a major event in my FH life, this one ex always contacts him saying congrats and how happy she is for him. This happened when she found out that I was pregnant, our engagement, the birth of our daughter. She got crazy after we had the baby. He had supposedly gotten her pregnant when they were 16 and she got an abortion. His reasoning was because he wasn't 100% sure that it was his baby. So after the baby she texted him saying "I wish we would've given our baby a chance at a life" and how the thought of me having his child made her sad but she was still happy for him? THEN there was another girl who hes never even dated that it in his friend group from high school that was texting him all the time AFTER we were already engaged and pregnant saying "when are you free? I want to hang out like old times", "you know I've always had feelings for you right?", "maybe one day we will have our chance [to be together]". FH always told and showed me the conversations so I know it was absolutely one sided. I don't know what makes girls act this way. History or not, it is just not appropriate or attractive by any means!!!

She isn't an ex, but Dh best friend from college is clearly in love with him. When I first met all of his friends she clung on to him, and tried cuddling with him. She talked down to me and told me I was too young (less than a year younger than her) she would send him valentine's day cards every year. All of it didn't bug me because she lives 3 hrs away and they rarely see each other. More than that he loves me. What did piss me off was at the wedding, everytime Dh and I were dancing she would try to break us apart to dance with him. Didn't matter if it was slow or fast she kept trying to get between us. She also tried to take home the picture of Dh in a tub as a baby. I just took it back from her, and the next day she found our dj and put up pictures the dj had taken without asking us about it. Overstepping a bunch of boundaries.

Yea I had an ex friend me in fb messenger and then he totally spazzed cuz some one of his friends an ex of mine told him that we did stuff but we never did lol werid but yea I hasn't talked to him for like 2yrs lol it was so out of the blue I was so confused

It was right after I changed my fb stats to engaged it was werid

After a pretty nasty break up my ex texted me ON MY WEDDING DAY. It was to tell me that he was over it all and he was happy for me. I know he thinks he was trying to be nice, but seriously?! ON MY WEDDING DAY?!?!

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