First off, I love my FMIL, the whole family that I'm marrying into, and the fact that they're super sociable and like to party (the opposite of my parents). But it kind of feels like overkill to me that they go out to family dinners for every single possible occasion. Every birthday, every new job started, every new apartment moved into, every. single. thing. (This is FH, his brother, and his parents. And now me, too.)
FMIL sighed at dinner the other night, "Well, it's not like I'll be celebrating my birthday this year, anyway!" Because our wedding is 4 days later. I'm all for having as big a bday celebration as she wants the weekend prior! But she's apparently said this a couple times around FH. I know this will sort itself out, and I'm not worried. I'm just curious as to what the norms are in your families. To me, the notion of seriously celebrating your bday every single year, throughout all adulthood, is crazy. I know I'll be too tired to do that for myself!