Ladies I Need Advice

My fiancé and I are having our wedding in Hawaii June 24th we are going alone with our daughter. With covid the stresses of traveling and having to test negative for covid has started to overwhelm me. I am in groups of others who are traveling to Hawaii just for cool spots advice on how it is through covid and others are extremely stressed about traveling and testing so I know that feeling is normal. Yesterday my fiancé’s brother in law called me and told me he wants to do a surprise bachelor party for him and he wants to do it at our house. I immediately wanted to say no because I don’t want to risk getting sick before we leave but I didn’t want to be a downer. His mom called me yesterday and said that she thinks I should stay somewhere else for the night in case the guys are too drunk to drive I told her I will not stay somewhere else it’s my house and my daughter and I are sleeping at our own house. Today his step dad called me to ask how I am feeling about it and I said two things bother me the exposure that can ruin our entire trip and our wedding and I don’t want people staying at my house he was adamant that I not come home before 10 and I told him I won’t but I don’t want people staying over he proceeds to tell me to calm down and I asked him why call to ask how I am feeling and I feel you and I’m asked to calm down? I really feel like nobody actually cares that we agreed we would be safe before we went he has no idea so I can’t even vent to him and I’m so stressed out and now that step dad called me And ask for me to not be home before ten they are probably getting a stripper in my house. I wish they would have done this a month ago and I feel so upset stressed out and I can’t even confide in my person because I don’t want to ruin a special memory for him 😞