*Edit because half of my post didn't end up posting?
Okay, so I've been thinking about last names a lot recently. I like my last name, and my fiancé's last name is fine, but it starts with the same first two letters as my first name and its a very basic last name (nothing wrong with basic last names, but I don't think I would feel as conflicted if the his last name was more uncommon, or just not majorly common). Back when we first started dating I was already feeling conflicted about what I would do if we ended up getting married, and now its actually happening and I still don't know what to do.
I feel like I want to keep mine so there isn’t the name alliteration but I’m also considering hyphenating or maybe adding my last name as a second middle name so I get to keep it but don’t have to deal with the hyphen. Idk.
Please, anybody, especially with a similar situation, thoughts and advice are very much welcome 🤗