Last Name Dilemma

Are you changing, hyphenating, or keeping your last name?


I’m in a bit of a dilemma and would love some perspective. I am very set on keeping my last name and my finance wants to keep his. The disagreement we are having is when it comes to kids in the future - he will not budge on his kids having any other last name except his, which I find unfair and do not want. I have brought up hyphenating our names for the kids and he says he doesn’t mind if I do so but wants the kids to only have his name.
Is anyone else having similar issues and any ideas on compromise or finding a solution?