My oldest sister is getting married next June. I'm the only sibling not involved in the wedding and really hurts. My older brother is in the wedding as a groomsmen and my two sisters are bridesmaids. My future brother-in-law's sister is a bridesmaid and his brother is the best man. I'm upset about this and feel incredibly hurt and left out. I know it may sound stupid. But, I'm already dreading the wedding knowing that I will be left out of the main festivities and will basically just be sitting around with the other guests. I will probably be alone for the day as my sister and her fiance have said that there will be brunches just for the wedding party and parents on the morning of the wedding. I told my dad last night about how I feel upset and he doesn't really understand.
I have never been wedding at all and I have always hoped that at least my siblings would include me in their weddings. My oldest brother got married two years ago and since he is in the Marines, he decided to only have Marine friends in the wedding pa=rty because they were wearing their dress uniforms. I was hurt back then, but I still pinned some hopes that my sisters would ask me to be in their weddings especially since I was left out of my brother's wedding. My sisters were included in my brother's wedding.
I have never been in any wedding for relatives and as a kid I hated that I was never picked to be ring bearer in relatives' weddings. But, back then I had hope that my siblings and friends would include me in their big days. I'm a kind and responsible person and I would fulfill all duties quite well.