Lesbian bridal shower

You don't plan your own shower.

And you definitely don't ask your guests to supply the alcohol for your wedding.

No no no

you don't throw your own shower.

You don't ask for liquor for the wedding.

It's not an UO, it's rude as fuck.

No one is saying people are tacky and rude. They're saying the IDEAS are tacky and rude.

Very important distinction on WW.

No-one called you tacky or rude. The idea of throwing your own shower is rude and gift grabby. Asking for people to bring you alcohol for your wedding is also not a good idea.

I am not throwing it my sister is. She was asking for ideas since neither of us have thrown one or been to one before.

We where brainstorming together.

Ok well we're not mind readers. We were trying to prevent you from possibly embarrassing yourself.

So, is the issue that you'd both like to be the guests of honor? Plenty of people host Jack and Jill showers, so if you want a joint shower, you have your MOH plan a Jill and Jill shower. No big deal -- all you have to do is chose a registry and together, you pick out the items you'd like. Easy peasy.

Me and my wife to be are doing a almost traditional shower but we bth will be there, little crazy and expensive to throw 2, where people invited would overlap. We're being practical our mothers and my moh are planning though we're involved in the planning..

DH and I had a joint shower, it was the same as any other shower. There was food, drinks, and presents. Both of our friends and family were there. It's very simple really.