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Let your partner or your parents plan the wedding?

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Lynnie, on October 1, 2019 at 11:05 AM

If you had to hand over complete wedding planning control to either your fiancé(e) or your parents, who would you choose?? Would you rather let your partner or your parents plan the wedding? Next Question: Spend a day with your mother-in-law or spend a day with your father-in-law? Back to the...

If you had to hand over complete wedding planning control to either your fiancé(e) or your parents, who would you choose??

Would you rather let your partner or your parents plan the wedding?

Next Question: Spend a day with your mother-in-law or spend a day with your father-in-law?

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Beginner July 2023
Karen · on October 3, 2019 at 3:32 PM
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Partner, he knows better what style we want!
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Savvy October 2020
Ruth · on October 3, 2019 at 7:32 PM
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My FH, but I'd also prefer my mom's help in decisions
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VIP November 2021
· on October 3, 2019 at 7:53 PM
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I trust them all. I would rather my sister though lol
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Dedicated November 2019
raquel · on October 3, 2019 at 8:00 PM
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That’s a hard one, my parents would focus on certain things and my fiancé would focus on others.
Probably my fiancé haha he is the groomzilla in the wedding planning.
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Super September 2019
H · on October 3, 2019 at 9:01 PM
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My Huband! (I love saying that 🥰). We don't always agree on a lot, but I know he would plan a perfect day.
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Expert February 2021
Reena · on October 3, 2019 at 9:10 PM
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My FH. He cares more about the decor than me already.
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Devoted October 2020
8Bitbek · on October 3, 2019 at 9:21 PM
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My partner. He knows what I want and what I like. It's also his day, not just mine. I've also involved him with a lot of the planning already.
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Rockstar April 2021
Alisha · on October 3, 2019 at 9:39 PM
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Neither because I am hands on and I know how I would things to be and I would want to be able to make up my own mind about things.
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Devoted July 2020
Kasyah · on October 3, 2019 at 9:59 PM
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Partner or parents. Think both would do well.
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VIP October 2020
Taylor · on October 4, 2019 at 1:17 PM
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Partner. My parents eloped and think weddings are a waste of money. I'd end up with nothing.
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Super January 2020
Cassie · on October 4, 2019 at 1:20 PM
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My fiancé for sure. It’s his day and he should get a day, also he’s been pretty helpful already.
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Savvy August 2021
Heather · on October 4, 2019 at 2:36 PM
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Parent I love my man but his idea of a wedding is not what I would want
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Beginner November 2021
Melissa · on October 4, 2019 at 3:36 PM
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Definitely my partner. Our tastes are definitely more similar that our parents.
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Savvy November 2020
Jennifer · on October 4, 2019 at 4:25 PM
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Fiance. He is actually pretty stellar at this "planning" and "getting things done" stuff.
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Dedicated November 2020
Kelisa · on October 7, 2019 at 1:42 AM
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My partner. I know he'd come ask me what I wanted anyway
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Savvy September 2020
Stephane · on October 7, 2019 at 12:05 PM
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FH says he doesn't know.
I'd have to say my dad, and FH's mom, not my mom.
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Expert May 2020
Tamera · on October 8, 2019 at 12:38 PM
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OMG, definitely my parents. If I left it up to my partner, nothing would ever get done, we would be engaged forever. My mom would at least know what I like and be organized and efficient in the planning.
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Super April 2019
Future Mrs. Polar Bear · on October 14, 2019 at 4:27 PM
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Partner. My parents mean well but it would end up being something my mom thinks I'd want and what she never had vs. what I'd actually want. It would have costed 4x the amount it did.
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Master October 2021
Sexypoodle · on October 14, 2019 at 11:35 PM
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Partner. We throw parties at our house about 4x per year. So I think he would know what to do... kinda.
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Savvy November 2020
Adrienne · on October 15, 2019 at 1:56 PM
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Ok this question really stresses me out!! I guess my partner, but its a tough one!
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