Let's talk ties! 👔

We are doing Jos A Bank ties in Light Tan with white pocket squares! Below wsa sort of my inspiration.

My fiancee is non-binary born female and is looking for a dapper androgynous suit with a waistcoat instead of a jacket and most likely a bowtie because they love the bowties they have, though they will be open to a regular tie if it looks better with the suit they find. They do know that they want purple somewhere. The only guys we have in the wedding besides our dads are my fiancee's brother and my nephews so we arent worried about matching or not matching. I'm sure my almost brother will wear some sort of tie and my older nephew looks so cute in ties (he would hate to be called cute at this point, almost a teenager...) but my younger nephew will only be 3 on the day so I dont know if he will be up to a tie of any sort or if he will be pulling it off, I'm letting my sister decide what he will be most comfortable in and his big sister will be helping him down the aisle (she will be 8 - my sister spread her kids out by 5 years each). My dad will most likely wear a regular tie, my future FIL is planning on wearing a kilt in his family tartan with the full regalia so I dont think that includes a tie, but I'm not sure.