Limitations for your Bachelorette party?

Nether one of us have set any limitations on each other. We both trust each other enough to say go have fun and know the other will not do anything to stupid.

Same with Misty. We are both doing low key parties!

I told FH that I really dont mind the stripper thing as long as it is respectful and no "extra curricular" actitivities are going on. He really doesnt care if I have strippers or not but I am not a fan of them.

Ditto to Misty. Isn't that what mature relationships are all about?

We don't have limitations or rules about what we can and can not do. We both respect each other too much to do anything stupid or to feel as if we have to enforce rules on each other. Plus it helps that we both are teetotalers so we won't have alcohol haze. lol

My only thing was "don't get arrested"...not that I'm worried about him, but mostly his friends, and then him joining in...and ALL of them getting arrested

The only limitation he gave me was "quit trying to control what happens at your bachelorette party!" because I keep saying things I don't want. Don't want to go to a strip club, don't want to go bar hopping, don't want to go to clubs... None of that is my scene and I can think of MUCH more fun ideas! But he thinks I should just keep my mouth shut and let my BMs plan what they want, lol. He also wants me to go to a female strip club and have pictures of strippers all over me. *sigh* Men.

I really don't see why any other rules would apply to bach parties than to the rest of the relationship.

We had joint bachelorette parties.

FH said if I have strippers hes going to be really upset. He doesn't want to believe I'm not going to have any lol

Neither of us had one. He doesn't like when women(or men) get super sloppy drunk, and he's seen batchelorette parties where the ladies did get sloppy and do some very......unladylike, to put it nicely, things. I knew his feelings on it, and it's probably one of the reasons he's with me is that I never do that. I don't take my clothes off, or proposition every guy in sight when I drink which he finds an endearing quality lol

Only thing FH said was not to get too crazy at the clubs lol. I love my rum, but I'm lightweight, so if I get caught up too much in the partying, I get massive hangovers, & end up in bed. So yeah, no hard partying for me.

I said no private strippers. Going to a club is fine, but private strippers are sleazy. and I read this article where one admitted, she often goes further than stripping, disgusting!!!

DH was not comfortable with me having strippers. No big deal because that's not my thing anyways. Maybe I am odd, but I didn't view it as my last single night out. You aren't single when you are getting married in a week. I didn't want to do anything to hurt or disrespect DH. I went out with my girls and boogied. The wildest thing I did was a few blowjob shots that people bought for me.

I have a long ways to go; but I know it will be just not get too crazy, it tends to happen when I do shots.

I mean the only limitation their should be for bachelor/bachelorrete party is don't cheat. Other than that, you just gotta be open to all the fun ideas. After all you are giving yourselfs to one person for the rest of your life..one night of drunk but faithful fun with the boys/girls is not wrong. We plan to get two suites in Vegas and each of us are going our seperate ways for the night.

We deserve one night apart and I know we won't do anything to ruin what we have going on.