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Mrs G
Super October 2013

List of reasons why you want to marry your fiancé

Mrs G, on July 2, 2013 at 9:42 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 37

We've been bickering a lot lately...we're both really stressed out with work and money stuff. Last week at premarital counseling we had to write a list of 12 reasons why we want to marry each other. We had to do them separately and not show each other until the session we had today.

We actually had a little argument this morning and neither were happy with the other. After we read them to each other we both had tears in our eyes.

I decided I'm going to get both of our papers framed and being it out the first fight we have.

If anyone else has been going through a rough patch...maybe it'll help you too. Smiley smile

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Latest activity by Luisa, on May 25, 2021 at 11:59 AM
  • Amanda
    Master August 2013
    Amanda ·
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    1. He's outside fixing our air conditioning unit right now, even though he needs to be up at 5AM for his first day at his new job tomorrow.

    I love this man.

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  • Sarah
    Super September 2014
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    What a sweet idea to frame it! I made a list of 100 things I love about FH and gave it to him for christmas one year. I think it's hiding in his closet somewhere though...

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  • Rachel
    Devoted February 2014
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    He was made for me and I was made for him.

    He's the most perfect thing ever.

    He brings me breakfast EVERY morning!

    He makes me dinner.

    He works so hard to provide for his family.

    His smile.

    The way he makes me feel.

    His eyes.

    His hands.

    The way he looks at me.

    I adore him.

    He is in my blood and has my heart.

    I want everything with him.

    He takes care of me.

    He holds me when I cry.

    I need him.

    He needs me.

    We are soulmates.

    OOPS! That is more than 12. Oh well! Smiley smile

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  • Sherry
    Expert July 2014
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    He is gorgeous!

    He is the hardest worker I know!

    He gives me his entire paycheck every week lol!

    He has the kindest heart and soul!

    He makes me laugh!

    He paints my toe nails!

    He makes me feel beautiful and compliments me all the time!

    He loves my son and treats him as if he was his own!

    We have so much fun together!

    He calms me!

    He is my soul mate!

    He is my best friend!

    Everyone loves him!

    He is amazing with kids!

    I could go on and on he is just so supportive and amazing!

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  • mrsrobinvalentine
    Master February 2014
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    When I look into his eyes, I can't control myself & my feelings.

    He is the most thoughtful person that I know

    He is gentle & strong at the same timeHe is

    He lets me be me, he makes me laugh

    He is the best damn lover I have had, OMG!!!

    He is generous

    He is my BFF, he is my blessing, I can go on on!

    Best of all, He loves me unconditionally

    He is easy to love & I can't get enough of him

    I miss him everyday & he calls & text me just to say that he loves me at least 3 times daily

    He is the one, I love this man

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  • SoontobeMRS.H
    VIP June 2014
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    He's smart

    He's very affectionate

    He's a great father/step father

    He's always here for me when I need him

    He understands me

    He knows when to keep quiet and let me rant

    He apologizes when he's wrong

    He does not throw anything in my face

    He's silly but serious at the same time

    He's a family man

    He's great with his hands (in all waysSmiley smile)

    I was in a very bad relationship before and he is my light at the end of the tunnelSmiley smile

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  • Marissa M.
    Super August 2013
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    @Sherry C. Isn't that the greatest family that our FHs could love our children as their own?

    1 He loves my daughter as his own

    2 He has never stopped loving me

    3 He will give anyone the shirt off his back

    4 He is the hardest worker I have ever met

    5 is quite handsome

    6 He stepped up as a father figure to his 8 siblings at age 17 when his father died

    7 He has the most beautiful relationship with God

    8 He is my soulmate

    9 He constantly tells me how beautiful and perfect I am for him

    10 He is my very own handyman

    11 He had such admirable confidence

    12 He can rock out karaoke better than ANYONE!

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  • Rachel
    Devoted February 2014
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    This thread makes me so happy!

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
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    He's my best friend and my safe place. Even when I'm mad at him or frustrated with something he did or didn't do I still love him.

    It all comes down to a feeling. It just feels right, and I've never been more sure of anything. I just know he's the one I'm meant to be with.

    He's a gift.

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  • FinallyDoingIt
    Master July 2014
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    We just get each other. We are sooooo different but we just fit.

    He's incredibly good looking and gets sexier with every year that passes.

    He makes me feel so beautiful even when I'm feeling disgusting.

    He works his a** off for his family.

    He can piss me off soooo bad and I think I want to strangle him but as soon as he walks through the door and gives me a little smirk, I forget how mad I am. Damn him.

    After 8 years together, I'm still giddy when he texts me or calls just to say hi. I can't get enough.

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  • Future Mrs.
    Expert August 2013
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    He has a nice butt......I have more reasons, but this has me fixated at the moment.

    But that is an awesome idea. We did something similar at pre-marital counseling. Framing it is a really good idea.

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  • Trena
    Master July 2013
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    A happy post! yay!

    every guy I ever dated before FH broke up with me. When FH told me once that he would never, and that if I ever wanted out, it was on me - I was smitten.

    He kisses me awake every morning. Best. Alarm. Ever.

    He loves dogs and kids. swoon.

    I cannot get enough of him!

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  • Mrs.L
    Master October 2011
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    Ohhh really good post!

    1) He will and has done anything for me.

    2) He is the greatest daddy.

    3) He wants a little girl as much as I do.

    4) He kisses me every morning before work (when he was) he wakes up earlier than I do.

    5) Kisses me every night.

    6) He cooks.

    7) He cleans.

    8) He watches reality tv with me including marriage stuff (yes im a reality tv junkie)

    9) I love him with all my heart.

    10) I cannot imagine my life without him.

    11) He's patient and intelligent.

    12) He's the best thing that ever happened to me (along with the birth of my baby).

    Okay, now im emotional...

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  • The future Mrs. Cody H.
    Dedicated May 2015
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    Mine is just a short list of things that make me smile. If I listed everything, the internet would implode.

    1. He loves me and all of my quirks (and boy do I have a lot of them).

    2. He encourages us both to embrace our inner children. Whether it's flying a kite, playing hide and seek, or tag, we always make time to just let loose and have simple fun.

    3. He lets me drool all over his pillow, if I need to have nap time while I'm over. (I don't always drool, it's just something about his pillow that brings it out.)

    4. He listens to my extremely TMI stories without judgment.

    5. He makes me feel beautiful, even when I look like I got run over.

    6. He doesn't mind my random, pointless stories.

    7. He gives me lollipops after doctor's visits Smiley laugh (You're never too old for candy!)

    8. He is very protective of me and always makes sure I am okay whenever we are out (I have Panic Disorder, and though it is mostly under control, I still have my severely anxious days.)

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  • Lillian
    VIP November 2013
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    Great idea Smiley smile

    1 - He is my best friend.

    2 - I love his smile.

    3 - He lets me be me/loves me unconditionally.

    4 - Has my back no matter what.

    5 - He is a great father to our kids and my son. He treats my son like his.

    6 - He is funny.

    7 - Handsome.

    8 - Motivated.

    9 - Gives me a kiss every morning on my forehead (just like my grandpa!)

    10 - Love him with all my heart.

    This is a good idea! I might have to re-read this everytime I feel like punching him! lol

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  • A
    Master April 2014
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    1. He is truly my other half. Identical personalities.

    2. My love for him runs deeper in my bones than anything ive ever experienced.

    3. His smile

    4. His eyes

    5. The way he looks at me, like im an unbelievable prize he has won

    6. His uncanny knack for making me feel sexy

    7. He is completely unfazed by my PMS and bratty days

    8. He understands and enables my video game addiction

    9. He gives me half of his paycheck every week, for the house I wanted, for the remodel I decided to do. He didnt have to, but he does.

    10. He has a great sense of humor

    11. He understands my fears and calms them

    12. When im pissed at him, all he has to do is put his arms around me and suddenly, that doesnt matter anymore. Once im in his arms, the only thing that matters is that he is there with me, we are together, and we are in love.

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  • Mrs. Butler
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    1. He was there for me in my health scare and he wasn't even my boyfriend yet.

    2. We both love football more than anything.

    3. He makes me Cappuccinos on the weekends.

    4. He has the best sense of humor.

    5. He is the best dad to our puppy and can't wait to have children of our own.

    6. He makes me feel safe.

    7. He has the kindest heart.

    8. He is very handsome.

    9. He balances me out.

    10. He is my best friend and my rock.

    11. He is extremely intelligent and can have the best debates/conversations with me.

    12. He motivates me to better myself, himself and us a team.

    I could go on and on. FH is perfect for ME.

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  • Brianna
    Super July 2014
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    Aww I love this post!

    1. He is my best friend

    2. Makes me laugh

    3. He is so kind and considerate

    4. He is handsome

    5. He treats my daughter like his own, teaches her tball team

    6. My hero, makes me feel so safe

    7. We have so much fun together all the time no matter what we are doing

    8. Hard working

    9. Will do anything for me as I will him

    10. He is a man of faith

    11. I couldn't picture my life with out him

    12. He is so thoughtful

    13. Always is surprising with notes and flowers

    14. I know he loves me

    15. He makes me feel beautiful

    16. I can talk to him about anything

    17. Always knows how to make me feel better.

    18. He is truly my soul mate

    Aww I know I just want to kiss him, but he is at work! Good post

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  • MrsHicks
    Master June 2014
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    1. He loves the LORD

    2. He has such a big heart for people

    3. He is fun

    4. He treats me like a Queen

    5. He has always treated me with the utmost respect

    6. He always works on being a better person (which is important to me)

    7. He loves me

    8. He is my dream come true

    9. He is a provider

    10. He is romantic

    11. He is handsome and sexy

    12. He makes me feel beautiful, sexy and special

    13. We can talk

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  • M
    VIP November 2013
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    This is so sweeettt.. Smiley smile

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