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Mrs G
Super October 2013

List of reasons why you want to marry your fiancé

Mrs G, on July 2, 2013 at 9:42 PM

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We've been bickering a lot lately...we're both really stressed out with work and money stuff. Last week at premarital counseling we had to write a list of 12 reasons why we want to marry each other. We had to do them separately and not show each other until the session we had today. We actually had...

We've been bickering a lot lately...we're both really stressed out with work and money stuff. Last week at premarital counseling we had to write a list of 12 reasons why we want to marry each other. We had to do them separately and not show each other until the session we had today.

We actually had a little argument this morning and neither were happy with the other. After we read them to each other we both had tears in our eyes.

I decided I'm going to get both of our papers framed and being it out the first fight we have.

If anyone else has been going through a rough patch...maybe it'll help you too. Smiley smile

37 Comments

  • Mary
    Expert August 2013
    Mary ·
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    Because I love him.

    Dont need anymore reasons than that

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  • Future Mrs.
    Expert August 2013
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    Okay, I know I already replied, but I'll say it again..he has a nice butt...oh and for reasons that may be deemed inappropriate on this site. :-)

    Okay and for all the other mushy reasons as well. :-)

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  • Megan K
    Expert July 2013
    Megan K ·
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    You girls are too nice---I'm laughing thinking about if the guys were on their fantasy baseball account and started a feed like this Smiley smile neverr

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  • Almost Mrs. White
    Master September 2019
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    1. He is patient

    2. He shares

    3. He loves to take me out on dates

    4. He's good to me, my kids & grandkids

    5. He has a great sense of humor

    6. He's my protector

    7. He's a romantic at heart

    8. He's my lover

    9. He'll cook for me

    10. He's my best friend

    12. He's very attentive to my needs

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  • mc4dj13
    Master November 2013
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    Reading these lists is getting me so misty-eyed! Love is alive here on the Internets!

    My fiance is my best friend

    We have our own language (made up of noises, tv/movie quotes, hand gestures)

    He pushes me to be the best person I can be and to not settle for anything less

    When I least expect it, he surprises me.

    He is so easy going and compassionate with people, but will dose out appropriate "tough love" when needed.

    He is the hardest worker I have ever known, aside from my Daddy.

    He came from nothing and is more stable financially than some of his older relatives.

    He is fun, smart, and sexy

    This quote from Sons of Anarchy comes to mind-

    Jax: "You love me, right?"

    Tara: "If I could stop, I would"

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  • HeWasHeavenSent
    Super September 2013
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    This is truly a great post!!

    I don't really have a list, but my reason is that he's a man with a plan. Once the "honeymoon" phase of our relationship is over, and real life begins, I know that he has a plan for us. He has a solid spiritual foundation, he knows what he wants out of life, and though life throws curve balls ALL the time, he has a plan of action for what it takes to get the life we want. I'm not talking materialistically either...I'm speaking on a deeper level of faith, love, trust, honesty, and communication.

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  • MistysoontobeBell
    Master October 2013
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    1. He can make me laugh even when I am mad at him.

    2. He always makes me feel beautiful even when I am down on myself.

    3. He stepped in and is a father to my son.

    4. He is my BFF (he will talk to me like I am one of the guys)

    5. We always have a good time together.

    6. He has the cutest dimples.

    7. He will do anything for a friend. He has proved this many times.

    8. He has a awesome body!!!

    9. He is a hard worker.

    10. He makes me feel safe.

    11. He is a great kisser.

    12. He rocks my world.

    13. We finish each others sentences all the time.

    14 Every day multiple times a day he will text me just to say he loves me or that I am beautiful.

    Wow! I could keep going and going. WE LOVE EACH OTHER!!!! That is the big one!!

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  • OhHeyItsIna
    Master November 2014
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    I just do.

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  • Mrs V (Roe)
    Master August 2013
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    He is dependable

    He is loving

    He is considerate

    When he cares for someone there is no length he won't go to for that person

    He is to the wall loyal

    He loves me exactly the way I have always needed and wanted to be loved and

    I never once had to explain to him what I need

    He is a hard worker

    He He has a good heart

    He believes in and loves the Lord

    He makes an effort to understand me and to communicate

    He allows me to be exactly who I am and NEVER makes me feel who I am is anything

    short of wonderful

    He loves his mother

    He loves family

    He is strong

    He is stubborn and not a pushover

    He has the most beautiful smile I have ever seen on a man

    He cleans

    I could go on and on but I'll stop here. Suffice to say he may not be perfect (nor am I) but he is perfect for me!

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  • Married2013
    Master September 2013
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    In no particular order…

    1.We are both family oriented

    2.FH is a hard worker and cares a lot about his job

    3.We have a lot of the same interests

    4.FH doesn’t try to dictate what I do

    5.FH is not jealous

    6.He’s hilarious

    7.He’s very generous with his time and money (where I am more stingy)

    8.Helps 50/50 with everything…house, bills, etc. (just maybe not wedding planning lol)

    9.Loves my dog as much as I do… sorry “our” dog

    10.He’s my best friend

    11.Very supportive

    12.He cares a lot about people

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  • Victoria
    Devoted December 2013
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    I LOVE this board!!!

    1. He is literally my other half but not in the sense that we are indentical... more in the way that we fit together perfectly. I keep him calm when he's the anxious one and he helps me be more of a dreamer than I am.

    2. We are very best friends. More than two years later and we can still spend every minute together. Laughing.

    3. We take 1/2 hour or more to fall asleep each night because the tickle wars and wrestling over who gets the "good pillow".

    4. He would do anything for me if I seriously asked him.. and I am the same for him.

    5. He is a manly man but the best darn cuddler in the whole world!

    6. When I get overwhelmed in one of my 'moods', he knows exactly what to do to help me relax.

    7. When I feel like I'm doing all the chores and I get PO'd... he is SO appreciative and bear hugs me. Damn him. Hahaha!

    8. He makes me feel beautiful when I am most natural. He embraces my curly hair and l don't feel like I need make-up around him.

    Smiley laugh

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  • Lori
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    When FI was preparing to ask my mom for permission to propose, he made a list of reasons why he wanted to marry me and wrote it down and had it with him just in case she asked. I didn't find out until the day he proposed and he showed it to me. I want to get it framed Smiley smile

    Anyway, there are about 80 million reasons why I want to marry FI. But only one really matters: he makes me happy

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  • Destiny
    Dedicated September 2013
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    My Mr. Dansby ;-)

    First and foremost he loves God and is HIS willing worker(even though sometimes I feel too much lol)

    He loved me wayyyy before I ever loved him

    He has always been my best friend

    He loves me just the way I am flaws and all

    He tells me I'm beautiful every 5secs(No really every 5secs -_- lol)

    He always lets me know how lucky he is to have me

    He comforts me when I'm down

    I'm able to talk to him about any and everything

    He loves my children and family as his own

    My family likes him(Thank God!)

    He protects my heart

    He is a hardworker

    He is so understanding

    He's such a gentleman always opening doors and even when he's mad at me

    He is such a hopeless romantic just as I am

    He is such a beautiful person inside and out.

    I love this man beyond words and my soul and so thankful to have him even when I need to strangle him sometimes.

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  • F
    VIP May 2014
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    1) He treats me like the best woman in the world.

    2) He always tells me I'm beautiful.

    3) He always makes me laugh even if I'm in a bad mood.

    4) I can't stay mad at him, whenever we bicker, we start laughing 5 minutes later.

    5) He is a string Christian man that sticks to his values.

    6) He is a hard worker.

    7) My family and friends love him.

    8) I love his friends and family too.

    9) He has pretty eyes.

    10) He takes care of his house.

    11) He loves his grandparents.

    12) He's a catch.

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  • DlovesD
    Master June 2014
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    He really listens to what I say

    He loves our cats as much as I do

    He makes me laugh every day

    He is never rude to anyone

    He is open minded

    He is a very creative and talented singer

    He's romantic and super affectionate

    He's a family man

    He's great in bed

    He makes my mom laugh

    He'll drop everything to take care of me when I need him to

    He took care of my dying father with kindness, love, and respect... Just as a son would do.

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  • Aimes
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    Great post everyone

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  • L
    Just Said Yes March 2015
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    I personally believe words can NOT explain why someone wants to marry another person, so when I was asked to write 20 reasons I would like to marry my fiance Mason, I wrote this...

    1. God gave him to me

    ( I was going through a rough patch and was alone, so I prayed to God and said, "God I need someone to help me get through it all. Please send me someone, next thing I know we talked for the first time and now 2 years and 6 months later here we are engaged!)

    2. He brought back my smile and laughter

    ( After my parents divorce I had a fake laughter and barely smiled now I can do both with truth!)

    3. He supports me with my goals

    4. He makes me feel beautiful even when I am a mess

    5. He is my best friend and my safe place

    6. He is a man of faith (Reads his bible and prays every night)

    7. I cannot imagine my life without him

    8. He always has my back

    9. He knows my pain and fear and still trys to fix them

    10. He is the guy of my dreams, but better

    11. He is okay with long talks at 2 or 3 in the morning

    12. He puts a smile on my face even when I try to be mad

    (Not easy to do with him)

    13. He has a heart of gold with me in the center

    14. When I am stressing over school he encourages me to get of the house for a little while to clear my head

    15. He takes me on dates and gets me surprises

    (Js but I love a surprise)

    16. He hugs me when I am sad and says nothing at all

    17. Treats me like his princes

    18. He gives me a love that no other can give

    19. Has his future planned out

    20. I just KNOW he is the one!!

    Like I said words can not truly explain why, but they can give a general idea!!!

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