My fiancée and I are planning our wedding at her sister's house in Savannah, which is about 4 hours away from where we live. Because of Covid, the travel time and having it at her sister's house (because it's gorgeous!!) we are choosing to keep the guest list very small. Probably around 30 people max.
I have a 6 year old son and a 6 year old niece that I would love to be the ring bearer and flower girl. I also have 3 nephews between the ages of 4 and 8 that I thought we could include somehow. My fiancée thinks that's just too much for a small wedding. I totally get that and normally would agree. But I also hate to make any of the kids feel left out or any of my sister's feel hurt by not including their kids. Plus, I'm also of the mindset that it's our wedding. We don't have to follow any society rules we don't want to. It should be the day we want. And it will just be family and close friends. Surely, they'll understand why I wanted to include the little kids in some way. Right?
What are your thoughts?
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