Love Language

View Quoted Comment Awww it seems like it works out perfectly for you two ❤️. That's amazing, you both help with everything!

My fiance doesn't have any one love language! It really annoys me! LOL

I GIVE in Acts of Service. I RECEIVE in Words of Affirmation. It has helped him to know this about me. Since he scores the same, he accepts anything I throw his way, which is nice.

View Quoted Comment Lol that's funny. But what you're doing now is working out for you guys so that's good!

View Quoted Comment Me too with mine. Like I know he loves me but I just wish he would show/say it more you know?

View Quoted Comment I've been struggling with this with my FH. I know he loves me but he can't seem to love me the way I need to be even though I TELL him. I was fighting my feelings on this but when I saw this, I knew that how I was feeling is justified. Man never thought adult relationships would be so hard.

View Quoted Comment It can definitely be a challenge if you don't have the same love language. BUT it's something that has to be addressed and worked on for a relationship to work. Effort has to be put in, I personally wouldn't accept that my husband "couldn't" love me the way I need to be loved. Because I feel that anyone can try

View Quoted Comment I wish it’s that easy to tweak things. We have been married for 23 years. He is perfect, has everything, just not romantic at all. His family isn’t affectionate at all. They never show any. He does not do words of affirmation, don’t care about small details, but he does everything else. He is a total nerd, work hard, and focus on the most important things in life. It’s like, he is a big chunk of diamond but raw. I wish there is a class for unromantic husbands 🤣

View Quoted Comment Trying, yes he did. However, he is very uncomfortable with it. He feels like “acting” and “funny”. He grew up totally different. I got hugs and praised, he got scolded and punishments. I saw my older generation hold hands and kiss in public, where in his culture that’s “scandalous”. He bought me flowers only after 21 years of marriage, and I appreciate that, but don’t ask me how he gave me the flowers. Walk pass by me, gave me the flowers quickly saying “here”. Knowing how he was, it is already a huge improvement for him. Other women might feel very offended 🤷🏻‍♀️

View Quoted Comment 🤣🤣 that's funny but it's working for you guys so that's all that matters!

View Quoted Comment I'm sure his growing up definitely has an impact on that! But you know your husband so you know what to expect from him. And at least he gave you flowers, I'm sure that was a happy moment ❤️

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I cannot emphasize enough how much we are That Couple and sometimes we even look at each other and laugh about it.

View Quoted Comment That's amazing ❤️

Where does this come from?

View Quoted Comment Where does love languages come from? Or are you asking how do you know your love language?

View Quoted Comment Who came up with all these categories and types of love language?

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His name is Dr. Chapman, have you never heard of or found out your love language?

View Quoted Comment Never heard of it except on here.

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Oh wow, well it's definitely a thing because not everyone likes to be loved the same way. You can google "Love Language Quiz" if you're interested.

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Haha maybe! That would def. confuse me! 😂