I of course like most people, you ask your bestfriend to be your maid of honor. And I did just that, I was beyond excited when I asked all of my girls to be apart of my big day I never thought twice about anyone else. My maid of honor was beyond thrilled to help me plan my wedding, shower, bachelorette party etc.
For the last 3 months shes been like a ghost, barely answering me skipping out on dinners, hangout schedules. I met with her this past Sunday and she was so focused on leaving and seeing a friend at 7.. while we just sat down face to face at 5:30 and then said I cant post that I'm with her. So that confused me to no end. I've had bridal wars set in stone since February. The date is Aug 11th and she completely forgot about it when I asked her yesterday. Tickets were already suppose to be bought and now she has issues coming over making our matching shirts..
Her only excuse is that shes been busy with 2 jobs. But! That darn snap chat that she posts everyday says other wise. She keeps flaking out on me and lying. And it's a whole side I've never seen and I've known her for 15 years.
not question is..
Am I in the wrong to think she is too busy for me or even being a friend?
Should i ask her to step down as maid of honor?
Has anyone ever had a best friend who flakes at the last second and howd you handle asking them not to be a maid of honor anymore??
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